Do you enjoy being single?
By veedee13
@veedee13 (242)
United States
August 5, 2011 10:14pm CST
I enjoy being single but sometimes I can't help but feel alone when I see couples around that are so sweet.Like I want someone to do sweet things with but when I think about it,right now is not the right time since I have alot of things going on.What about you?Are you happy with your single life?
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10 responses
@luzarme (10)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
I'm still single and am enjoying it. Since I'm a christian lady, waiting for the right man for me and for the right timing. I know that God is still writing my own love story, He's the author of my life and I want that His will be done.
I will follow the Path of Courtship...=)
@luzarme (10)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
I'm still single and am enjoying it. Since I'm a christian lady, waiting for the right man for me and for the right timing. I know that God is still writing my own love story, He's the author of my life and I want that His will be done.
I will follow the Path of Courtship...=)
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
10 Aug 11
I am single and I certainly do not hate it. But you are right about the thing that when I see a couple who are together, smiling and laughing, I feel kind of lonely. You do want to have someone beside you to support you, hold you and love you. Almost everybody wants that.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 11
I want to tell the truth
Sometimes I enjoy my loneliness
Sometimes I do not enjoy my loneliness
Sometimes I feel crowded when together with my friend
But sometimes loneliness say hello to me and want to be my friend even iam sitting with my friend or relative
@sirulrike034 (166)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
I'm no longer happy being single. I feel the loneliness especially when sighting couples spending their time together.
Indeed, being single has less troubles and more time for priorities.
I guess this is the time that I felt I am no longer happy and would like to experience life having a partner that will spend my time with.
I want to end my life as single and be happy with a partner.
@ruperto (1552)
• Philippines
6 Aug 11
It seems each of us will have our own time when we look around and say "there is so much to do without having to seriously take in a life partner."
They say for males it is not so pressing.
For females, there seems to be an age limit where shifting into married life becomes urgent :) For instance most females best be younger than 30 to have their first baby...
Perhaps the concern is that not having at least a baby is an issue ... then perhaps the question is "how do i feel about it?" is my stand sure ? will i feel the same way a couple of decades from now?
Perhaps if we can only predict how we will feel decades from now, we can best plan how we will choose to add the changes in our lives ... while we still can :) ... it seems in the final analysis, only the self will have the final say on that which really matters ...
What do you think ?
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
6 Aug 11
hi veedee,
I am single for years now there are times I wish I am sharing everything with someone else but life is like that
Who knows one day you are one of those sweet couples
For mean while enjoy single life
happy mylotting
@Shlok369 (33)
• India
6 Aug 11
It depends in how u think about being single is lonely or happyfull .....
Coz when u jump in a relationship thinking it z more enjoyable and lively , u feel like again being single when u engage in a fight with ur mate .....
When u r being single , obviously u r lonely enough to not get in fights .....
I prefer anyone to experience both becoz. Experience of earlier relations makes us to know what kind of mate v want , how to behave , how to respond , for an final relationship .....
If u live single u can't judge a person coz of zero experience in understanding up ......
What ever happens dude , never stretch a relation till it breaks ripping ur life away ..........
@Harmonics (251)
• Philippines
6 Aug 11
Personally, yes I do enjoy being single. Being able to use my singleness to do worthwhile things and activities contributes largely to that enjoyment. As an individual, there are things that needs to be improve, skills to be hone, and others which we can use in the day to day situations of our life.
It is normal to feel the need to be with someone especially if you see sweet couple amorously behaving toward each other. However, relationship does not only include romantic love but also responsibility and it takes maturity to be able to manifest such attitude. Many relationships and marriages failed because of not being responsible.
If you feel that it is not yet the "right time" for you, then you can use that freedom that singleness affords in such a way that could make you productive in many ways.