are women more fun loving than men?
By preethaanju
@preethaanju (3000)
India
August 5, 2011 11:53pm CST
According to a survey its men who suffer the most, physically, mentally and emotionally in the event of a love breakup .Women tend to recover fast and in fact get adjusted to life more easily.They are willing to get married to a new guy and carry on with their life while men begin to rot and lose they way in life.Are women less sensitive than men?Is this because women love fun and comforts in life more and are willing to forget a loved one faster then men?
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12 responses
@rambansal (574)
• India
6 Aug 11
Yes, it seems to be true - men get shattered while women stay cool in case of a love love break-up. But it is not for the reasons that women are less sensitive than men or are more fun and comforts loving, as you questioned.
Women have a greater burden on themselves of being mothers or would-be mothers and for this they readjust. Secondly, biochemistry of female body make women more adaptable and adjustable than men. Thus, women have more positive attributes than men.
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@preethaanju (3000)
• India
7 Aug 11
Yes they do have certain positive attributes given by nature. But dont u think she is unreasonable at times and think of her own pleasures and comforts?
@rambansal (574)
• India
7 Aug 11
Being unreasonable at times and think of her own pleasures and comforts is purely subjective and circumstantial, and equally true for both men and women.
@nneha22 (17)
• India
6 Aug 11
yes, women more fun loving. Early in their lives,they are made to learn adjustments and compromise. So,at the later stage,she just learn to live happily in their life as the way life comes. Women are more sensitive than men bt more mature mentally also. She develops a lot of patience and also learn to adjust in their life. Men,on other hand,wants to lead the life in their own way,they are less willing to adjust,so they suffer.
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@preethaanju (3000)
• India
7 Aug 11
But from my personal experience i think women are less sensitive than men with regards to love. they tend to forget and carry forward with their life irrespective of what happens to her partner
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
6 Aug 11
Friend this is the main reason men die more from heartattack and women not die to heartattack because heart is small and men try to gathered there all thing not share to anybody or not feel free but women share every bad incident with their family members or friend and feel free. So her heart is feel free and not more weight than size but men can do this. this is right women more fun than men.
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@preethaanju (3000)
• India
7 Aug 11
HAHA fews years back even i thought women dont die of heart attack even though they had a heart. But now both men and women die of the disease.Yes when pent up feelings are not let out it certainly has an adverse affect on the mind , body and emotions
@zerd87 (301)
• Philippines
6 Aug 11
Maybe its true. Women is a fun loving individual since it is very nature in them to do so. But it cannot be applied to all. Some men also recovers fast in a heartbreak. It really depends on the individual on how to handle thing when it come to worst.
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@preethaanju (3000)
• India
7 Aug 11
yes all individuals are different. But from my personal experience i have seen women just are not sensitive when it comes to love break up
@flowerfest08 (1677)
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6 Aug 11
Maybe because woman are more open to express what we feel, we are not shy to cry whenever we get hurt, and we have some friends that helps us when we feel like this, unlike men, they are mostly shy to show that they cry, and shy to confide their feelings to their friend.
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@preethaanju (3000)
• India
7 Aug 11
sure women express their feelings more than men. But dont u think women think of their own welfare and pleasures and comforts more than men??
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
7 Aug 11
they are surely more mentally and emotionally careful. But dont u think in their cautious approach they dump many a men on the wayside thinking of only her pleasures??
@bubbletush (1332)
• Philippines
6 Aug 11
one of the advantages of being a woman especially in time of a heartbreak is the support group. by this, i mean the friends who are there who will listen as she pours her heart out. women finds comfort sharing with her other girl friends what she is going through. and that helps a lot to ease the pain. while with men, most tend to just keep all the emotions bottled up inside. only a few men would want to talk about what he is going through.
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@preethaanju (3000)
• India
7 Aug 11
Yes its not men's nature to share. he would rather keep all his problems for himself and suffer.But still dont u think that women are not reasonable at times??
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
6 Aug 11
I don’t think that women are more fun loving than men’s. Because men’s always try to spend more and more for their fun and they always make it happen with their friends. But women’s are very shy and they don’t like to feel more fun. Because sometimes they don’t like this. But there are also some women are who are very funny and always try to make fun with their friends.
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
7 Aug 11
Most women indeed love to enjoy their life to the full. In love women are the first to recover and set up her own house while men lose their way in life
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
7 Aug 11
I think we are because of the missconcept of men not beign able to show kindness and their feelings because it's gay or weak. It takes courage to show our feelings, a lot actually because when we do that we open up our selves, this concept is wrong and I love kind guys, I don't think they are gay at all. In fact I can't have a relationship with someone that withold what one's feel.
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
7 Aug 11
Ys men by nature are very secretive and keep all their problems for themselves. Doctors say this is not the way to handle tension and worries. To get relief one must give vent to their feelings
@naija4real (1291)
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7 Aug 11
There is no clear answer to this. I think we have both fun loving men and fun loving women. We equally have a lot of women that are not fun loving and men who also does it. It also depends on what you exactly mean by fun loving. What is fun loving to me maybe something that is not fun loving to you. There is actually no clear cut statistics on your argument. It is very difficult to get the exact answers and cultural factors is also responsible.
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
7 Aug 11
But the research says something different. women tend to fun out more than men
@pbbbsra (1214)
• Philippines
6 Aug 11
I think it has nothing to do with being men or ladies. I think it depends on the kind of person who deal with the loss. Some ladies also find it difficult to deal with the loss. I have a friend who still can't get over his ex boyfriend who left er and married with another girl.. I think it depends on who loved more. I think it doesnt have to do with being a man or a lady..
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
7 Aug 11
No according to a research women are more emotionally strong, thats why men seek their opinion in times of difficulties. But most women do misuse this nature's gift