My husband has a girl friend

@surekharathi (14146)

• India

6 Aug 11

No no no friend sjvj no chance of doubt my husband is very shy men so I was telling him to tell any girl he never talk even with my friends also. I trust on him till my last breath because we love to each other I am just ask for fun and I want to know the opinion of mylotter what they think about my husband hahhah

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Sanjeev

@sjvg1976 (41290)

• Delhi, India

6 Aug 11

True i understand it as nobody is perfect in all things we need to compromise for something.As there are certain things in which my wife is not good at for which i need to be understanding and vice versa thats the only key to the successful relationship.

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catof1

@catof1 (683)

• United States

6 Aug 11

We women can be strange creatures at times and become VERY inseucre and need reasurance. I trust my husband 100 percent, but on those weird days that I keep on thinking and allow the mouse to have full throttle I get worries too. Like I am not prety or good in bed due to lack of experiecne. I spoke to my husband about this and he was very supportive. He is also 15 years older than me so he done it all alreay.

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tarachand

@tarachand (3895)

• India

6 Aug 11

Its great to know that you and your husband love and care for each other. I hope and wish for you that the love continues for all your loves. You husband is a nice man who most certainly cares for you if he truly believes and acts according to what he has said. As far as you being mad is concerned, I don't think so. Many women feel insecure (and rightly so) as wives.

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@tarachand (3895)

• India

6 Aug 11

that should read a I hope and wish for you that the love continues for all your lives!" Sorry for the error!

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@surekharathi (14146)

• India

6 Aug 11

Thanks friend to support me and for telling I am not mad. Really I found due to this conversation my husband is nice men. Thanks for blessings and response

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chiyochan

@chiyosan (30183)

• Philippines

6 Aug 11

hehe its good that you check up on your husband. and i think most husbands when given the chance, and their wives are the ones offering them to have fun with other girls, they will surely want to entertain the idea.. ;) so be careful what you wish for you just might get it.. it may be that its okay for now ( you think) but if it happens.. will you not do anything and just wait for him everyday at home when he spends time with other women on his time that should be spent with you?

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@surekharathi (14146)

• India

6 Aug 11

Haaha

friend when I posting this discussion I was also laughing. Really it may be dangerous in my life so now this time I am lucky and really I feel my husband is loves me. thanks to response.

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theSids

@thesids (22180)

• Bhubaneswar, India

6 Aug 11

Hi surekharathiji

Hmmm... Almost all have appreciated the discussion so far. He really seems to be a nice hubby. But... (let me add some spice here

) - I dont trust him. I mean he goes to work, at office or during traveeling to office who knows how many friends (read girlfriends) he has

There is nothing wrong in having girlfriends but when any of these Girlfriends becomes a bit more special things go bad. By the way, I too am married, love my wife the most on this planet and still I have so many friends who are girls (or ladies) - and I dont think I am a bad hubby

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theSids

@thesids (22180)

• Bhubaneswar, India

7 Aug 11

Wow a Computer Institute! What do you people train the students on? The Software or Hardware? I and my wife too have a dream to set up a computer institute where we can teach students all that we know(this will also mean that we will spend more time together

). Thanks for the Freindship day's Wishes and I wish you a great day with all good friends around. I hope you spend more personal time with your hubby = and he is your best friend

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@surekharathi (14146)

• India

7 Aug 11

Friend my husband teaching Hardware course and I am teaching software course like MS-Office, Internet, Tally, CCC etc and two other faculty is also to teach the C & C++ language. Thanks and same to you yes my husband is the best friend for me.

@surekharathi (14146)

• India

6 Aug 11

Hmmm dear friend no chance of girl friend because my husband we both are working in one place that is our own Computer Institute. So no chance for traveling alone but you are right after marriage anyone can make a friendship with girl or women but their attitude should good and innocent. Thanks to participate in my discussion. HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY I sent belt in my second discussion.

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icantthinkofaname

@icantthinkofaname (135)

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6 Aug 11

I am glad your husband was able to give you the reassurance and love you needed. He truely is a keeper. Congratulations.

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@surekharathi (14146)

• India

6 Aug 11

Thanks friend really I am lucky women my husband truly helped me. Thanks for congrats and response.

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Rosa26

@Rosa26 (2618)

• United States

6 Aug 11

Well me and my husband have a great relashionship, sometimes we are watching TV and then I see a beautiful woman and I say hey llook she have a beautiful hair or beautiful body and he laugh because he feels happy that I am not that kind of that are trying to make like the man get blind about the others women, for I don't care I am not jelous, he always says that he feels bless with the kind of wife has.Lol.

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@surekharathi (14146)

• India

6 Aug 11

Hahah

the same thing is here when we both are watching TV and he has seen Aishwarya Rai then he tell me ohhh I will married with Aish then I said him ohhh lets go we both are go in the Mumbai I will also search other men and you search you Aish then we both are laughing loudly. I never feel jealous but this was funny question because he never talks with any girl. Thanks to share your nice and funny event.

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Patsie Hatley

@Hatley (163776)

• Garden Grove, California

6 Aug 11

hi surekharathi yes indeed your husband is really a very nice sweet man and you are lucky to have him. so hold him close and hug him for what he said to you. no a good husband is not going to share himself with another woman, as he respects and cherishes his wife too much to hurt her. she is the one he needs,the one he really loves too.Yes your husband is truly a nice man. No you are smart and clever and funny too, you are not at all mad.hugs from hatley.

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@surekharathi (14146)

• India

7 Aug 11

Thanks mam yes mam I am lucky and thanks to suggest me I will really hug him for this answer. Thanks to say I am not mad really I daily find a new words for my husband because I am talkative women but they less talkative men and laughing more so I make and tell him new new funny story then they laugh. You can see my husband photo in profile how is he tell me smart than me. Yes I know this hahah

anil02

@anil02 (24688)

• India

6 Aug 11

Hello, You are checking your husband it means you have not confidence in your husband. After marriage every one in innocent.

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anil02

@anil02 (24688)

• India

6 Aug 11

My thinking is not negative, you write it that I am checking you. If you done all these for fun than nothing is bad in it. Have a loud laugh.

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@surekharathi (14146)

• India

6 Aug 11

Hmmm your thinking is negative dear friend I wan not checking my husband I was telling to my husband talk with girl because he is very shy men and never talk to anybody other than family members or friends so I want to say ohh make a new friend even a girl also. I told him this funny questions so he was laughing on my words and that I need.

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Sanjeev

@sjvg1976 (41290)

• Delhi, India

6 Aug 11

Dear Surekha

but i think checking is done when you have doubts in your mind???

May be i am wrong but i feel so???

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stanley777

@stanley777 (9402)

• Philippines

6 Aug 11

I think you have a very happy family.Your husband is a one woman man and only cares for his family especially you.You must be very lucky for having a loving and caring husband like him.He is never concern for any other woman but you.Wish you all the best my friend.

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stanley777

@stanley777 (9402)

• Philippines

7 Aug 11

Oh, maybe he don't want to laugh on anything that isn't funny.I guess he is a hardworking man too.Always busy with his work for his families future and no time for leisure, he he he.He is really a model husband and you are very lucky to have him.

@surekharathi (14146)

• India

6 Aug 11

Thanks friend really my husband is nice men but he is Kanjus in laughing means they laugh in rare case and I am laughing daily in every event like hahahahah....

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CTHanum

@CTHanum (8234)

• Malaysia

7 Aug 11

Woman can share everything but husband. That is correct but I don't fully agree. They are others who willing to share their husband with other women. If you asked me then I can't give an answer as I am not married. Glad you have a very nice husband sis!(^^)

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CTHanum

@CTHanum (8234)

• Malaysia

7 Aug 11

Wow!! You willing to come to Malaysia for that reason?? But I don't know when I will get married.(^^)

@surekharathi (14146)

• India

7 Aug 11

Hahhah

dear sis you are really not married then will you call me when your marriage is fixed we both will came to attend your marriage ceremony hahahah...

. Yes it is true women can share everything with anybody but she cant share her husband you know better after marriage. Thanks to response.

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hardworkinggurl

@hardworkinggurl (37063)

• United States

13 Aug 11

Ahaha! my dear sweet friend you were enjoying your time here while I was away.

This is a funny and cute discussion, and shows that your husband is quite loyal to you. This is wonderful to hear as many couples have issues due to infidelity. Shows he is loyal and caring so many blessings to you both and thanks for sharing your funny observation with us. I am really glad he is a very nice man.

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loyalty

@surekharathi (14146)

• India

26 Aug 11

Really I also feel this some time that I am starting funny discussion because friend when I am start writing on this discussion I was laughing. But I missed you lot when you were not here without you I feel mylot is empty or blank. Yes friend my husband is really good and understanding men. Thanks to share your view.

YoghurtGal

@flapiz (23153)

• United Kingdom

7 Aug 11

When I read the title I was thinking, " oh my gosh, what a pity", but now i think, "Wow".. You are a lucky woman. Your husband truly loves you and is faithful to you. Hahah. His reply was simply sweet and innocent. So I think you should take care of him and feed him well. lol

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@surekharathi (14146)

• India

7 Aug 11

hahhaha..

friend I write the title for shocking my all mylotter friends because after title they think ohhh no surekha's husband is not good so I read the sentence read full discussion. Really I loves my husband much more and he also loves me. Yes I will take care of him in every manner. Thanks for response and suggestion.

catof1

@catof1 (683)

• United States

6 Aug 11

Wow you are pretty smart and cool at the same time. Did you husband get that you were like testing him? I did the same thing since my ex husband did cheat on me and with GUYS. ug. I am sooo happy to hear he loves you this much and as you do too. May your life be full of happiness and your marriage be blessed indeed.

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@surekharathi (14146)

• India

6 Aug 11

Thanks friend for blessing really some husband is cheat with us but I think I am lucky he loves me more but some time we quarrel is also in between us.

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@surekharathi (14146)

• India

6 Aug 11

Sorry these friendship belts is upload in my second discussion tomorrow is friendship day but I dont know how it is upload here I am laughing.

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flowerfest08

@flowerfest08 (1677)

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7 Aug 11

I think your husband is nice to have a view like that. but maybe there is nothing wrong also if he get a friend that is a girl, but of course that girl needs to be your friend also so you wont get jealous, I think that's better that way, but if he really don't want a friend girl then that's the best because he don't want you to get jealous.

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@surekharathi (14146)

• India

7 Aug 11

Thanks to say my husband is nice but friend I am also nice not bad ahahh

No I also know not wrong if he has a friend girl hahahh I am not feel jealous because I also like girl more than boys so if my husband make a friend it means she is my friend also haaa

so no change of jealous.

skysuccess

@skysuccess (8858)

• Singapore

7 Aug 11

surekharathi, I am sure that this will be reassuring for those who does not believe that there are still good men around. I am happy for you and I wish both the best.

@surekharathi (14146)

• India

7 Aug 11

Thanks for wishes to both. Yes my husband is good men and he proved it with nice replying.

indahfth

@indahfth (11161)

• Indonesia

13 Aug 11

You deserve to be proud, have a very good husband like that. You must be very happy. I really want, have a life like your wedding. Having a good husband and dear ones. My husband has another woman, and intend to marry again.

@surekharathi (14146)

• India

13 Aug 11

Thanks friend to tell me this yes I proud of him. Sorry to heard this really some men is can not take care of his life but they never get again the same wife. I thing the only first wife is care him truly and with love no second wife can do this.

aerous

@aerous (13434)

• Philippines

8 Aug 11

Well, we don't be sure for some husband having friends either online of offline. Because most of the time husband doing such things. It's not really a friend of like minded people but really a mistress... Your husband sweet words is dangerous. If you did not analyze something before you believe and be an ignorant for men's appear. You will be leaving alone someday with sorrow... I appreciate your husband words. Because he is right...If you have a broad understand about what he say. You will understand what he is going to conceptualize with you...

@surekharathi (14146)

• India

13 Aug 11

Yes friend you are right if brad understanding are in between husband and wife then never came any problem in their life. Our mind should be frank and trust is also necessary in relationship. Thanks for sharing your veiw.

dismalgrin

@dismalgrin (2604)

• United States

8 Aug 11

You are lucky. Maybe he is not so innocent as much as very wise. A husband and wife need to maintain that girlfriend/boyfriend ideals for all of their marriage if possible. Sure you move on with your lives as one and take on adult responsibilities together, but at the same time that stuff about hanging on each other and enjoying each other is good stuff to hang on too. Much luck for the two of you in life.

@surekharathi (14146)

• India

8 Aug 11

Thanks friend for response me and tell my husband is not only innocent but also wise. I will tell him then they feel more happy. Thanks for wish.

balaji85in

@balaji85in (459)

• India

6 Aug 11

Hi my sister. Really you are having a nice gentleman as your husband.. No one ask like this to her husband to have girl friend like you asked.. Likely, No husband will be these much of sincere if wife asked him to have a girl friend. Hey your husband is not an innocent person, he is correct in his view that no girl will share her husband to anyone like he said, In my view, You are a most innocent one. I would like to say that you both are made for each other. Sister, i am saying about your husband not because of this discussion. We can map a human mind and his attitudes, views, mindset with his appearance.. I can analyse some what about your husband. Its just a psychological guess..

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@surekharathi (14146)

• India

6 Aug 11

Hahah

so my funny and dear Bro I am unique in the world. Am I right? Really my husband is nice men when I tell him this words he was laughing and he said me you are mad. Yes I like his views and understanding. I am sending friendship belt in my discussion so read it and tie that belt on your hand ahhahah

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pvtandersonbryce

@pvtandersonbryce (37)

• United States

6 Aug 11

I think you have a wonderful husband. Its hard to find good people.

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