three to four Girl friend and wait for it... wait!.. wait!.. Simulationeously!..

Philippines
August 6, 2011 10:30pm CST
i have a friend who actually have four girl friends all together at the same time.. he does it with out fearing of getting caught.. i applaud him for managing his time well enough that he could afford to spend time with them and his girl friend don't really notice of this ill scheme of him.. he even tries to teach me how to do it but sadly with the busy life im in right now..i could only afford to spend time with one girl friend and its not even enough,i mean work, carreer mostly consumes my time...
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@Awinds (2468)
• United States
7 Aug 11
I personally don't find your friend's behavior admirable. That is deceiving the girls he is dating. Someday, when the secret leaks out, he is going to break three or four hearts. He is really just using those girls (that is if they don't know). Personally, I am monogamous and if I found out a guy was doing this to me without me knowing, I would give him one in the jaw. It's not very civilized I know, but I would be to upset to think clearly.
• Philippines
7 Aug 11
well, i hope he could meet some one like you and realize his mistake..
@Awinds (2468)
• United States
7 Aug 11
He will find out eventually - I just hope the girl doesn't have my temper. :)
• Brazil
7 Aug 11
the friend must have complex and morbid fear of falling in love. what a fool. He does not dating 4 people ( oh.. they are people!!with feelings!!) because he likes them , but because he thinks gain something from it. Basically, he wants to impress colleagues. it is better analize better the example of his parents.
@pbbbsra (1214)
• Philippines
7 Aug 11
Wow... you friend may be a rich boy... Poor girls though... I hope he won't get caught. He must get scared, one day when he really fall in love with a girl and what he did falls back on him... That will really be painful.
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• Philippines
8 Aug 11
he's family belong to a middle class, he's not really rich though he's a dancer and a music lover, i mean he's good in playing guitar, probably its how he used captured the girls to like him..
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• Australia
9 Aug 11
That's crazy. I would like to think that my boyfriend would never do this to me. I am not sure why you would want to pretend to be in a relationship that you were not committed too, i guess it depends on the way that you feel about the people that you are seeing. I would think this would be hard to do if you loved even one of your girlfriends... or your friends girlfriends. I wouldn't be proud or want to copy this behaviour and the only reson you are staying with your girlfriend shouldn't be because you don't have the time, nor should anyone in a relationship want to learn this behaviour. I think is disgusting and goes to show why there are so many hurt people out there who cannot trust in those who deserve it and want what's best for them.
@axlrate7 (1398)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
I don't ever dream to be like that, it is more good for me to love only one girl. Someday that friend of your's life will be complicated because of what he's doing right now.
@francesca5 (1344)
7 Aug 11
i think such deceit should not be admired, either. the trouble is, in a way it is clever to play these games, but these games are being played with real people, and people are not toys, they are real human beings with emotions. i have a strange situation, but i am older than your friend, and am not thinking of starting a family. i have two men that like me, and i like them both, and they both know about each other. but i find it a very difficult situation, as i do not think i could have a deep and meaningful relationship with more than one person. so i am not happy. and i think it depends what you want from a relationship, if you want a meaningful lasting relationship then you don't treat people as toys, but if all it is is a game, then maybe you do. but it will not bring him lasting happiness.
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• Philippines
7 Aug 11
i'll tell that to my friend.. and i do think that he's not happy with his relationship based from the fact that he's not even expressing true compassion over them.. i mean, we talk about experiences of having a serious relationship and he actually has nothing to share at all.. He just brag about having four girl friends at the same time but i have never heard from him about happy how he really is with any one of the them..
• Philippines
8 Aug 11
Two timing is a bad thing. As in his case four girls all at once? What in the world is that? Girls should be treated with respect. Fooling around is a bad thing. You will never be truly happy if you listen to what your friend is telling you.
@luanakent (794)
• Brazil
7 Aug 11
your friend is an idiot.. and he needs the therapy.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
7 Aug 11
That's too bad of your friend. Anyway,there is right time for everything. I am sure he will regret soon one of those 4 girls will knew his cheatings. He will surely lost all of them .