Do you hit repeatedly on the wrong people?
By nakula2009
@nakula2009 (2325)
Indonesia
August 7, 2011 5:30pm CST
Is it normal that you meet over and over again to different people?
Unfortunately, I let myself be fooled by people. People I talked a lot about me. And a few days ago I was told that these very people whom I trusted, the people are, I fight against.
Is it worth time and time again to start from scratch?
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5 responses
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
12 Aug 11
Victim always makes you look at yourself maybe you should get the people with whom you have to do a better view and maybe screw your expectations down a bit. Because the more you expect from others, the more you'll be disappointed by them.
When you get to know someone new, you should take it slow. Im not like all your worries and personal problems to tell. Once inside you feel if your feelings for the other are correct. We often know intuitively, whether someone is really friendly and sincere, or not.
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@saparidiki64 (594)
• Indonesia
3 Sep 11
You're certainly not wrong with what you say, but I can tell them otherwise. This time I was cautious in my shop stewards. This time it's taken a dreivierteltes years and have been accused time and again: "Why is it so difficult to you to trust me!" I was close. Well,after nine months he has shown his true face.
An happiness that this time I was cautious,but I'm still alone. And next time I'll be even more cautious and the downward spiral continues ... (Down the thumb is not mine, I'll give you actually legally)
@saparidiki64 (594)
• Indonesia
3 Sep 11
Hello, you poor soul,
somehow I know your pain, but certainly not on this scale as you describe with your own site.
It is believed, was what is in the answers. You react in a similar breed of people (ie similar to the one who has violated one ever) is much more cautious and thus more vulnerable.
Life is a struggle to be loved and to the trust. Honest confidence.This realization (only recently have come to it)is very bitter and not particularly inspiring, but I think that there is a remedy to victims of this spiral to come out somehow.
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
11 Aug 11
Hello Nakula
As long as you are you learn the process, that is unless you know how to handle it, as long as you're always such people who you think are the "wrong" are attracting. It's a life lesson that you need to master! And once you've handled the issue and above all have released, the issue will disappear. Good luck. You can do it I believe in you!
@kendedes2011 (2712)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 11
God has made ??a beautiful world.
On the way to make them subject to us, we humans make us materially and spiritually (again) broken.
May it be a comfort for you that the "wrong people" make themselves and each time something breaks. Not just because they lose someone they had trusted.
Problem is, they can not just different.
In addition, there is an old problem of humanity, for example, that Men or women always fall for the same type.
@dayangsumbi2010 (1724)
• Indonesia
10 Aug 11
It's worth every new beginning ... you can draw on the experiences of your last meeting.
The experiences which we do not always pleasant but it is useful to us in any case. When we first realized where our "weaknesses" are, we can transform them into strengths.
I press the thumb.