Miss X shows up 6 yrs later ,claiming her 5 year old belongs to your husband...
@DIVINEPURPOSE (62)
United States
August 7, 2011 9:42pm CST
Scenario, What would you do if Miss X shows up 6 yrs. later after your wedding day claiming to have a 5 year old by your husband. However, does not show you any type of respect when she shows up. she rolls her eyes, and gives you very nasty looks although she does not know you. Looking at the child, he/she does not even resemble your husband, so you ask her in private if she was sure that that child belongs to your huband and she swears at you and call you out of your name, then says no that she just want to get back with him, and she will do just that! How would you handle that situation?
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@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
8 Aug 11
OMG! I really don't know how to handle such thing! That's a crazy scenario.. I will surely be crying so hard and kick my husbands as8! lol
Seriously, I will confront my husband "WHAT'S GOING ON MY LOVE?YOU'RE x is here in front of me and claiming that you have child?!!!come home and let's talk"
To end the issue, ill have the CHILD screened for DNA testing(assist identification of individuals) and hoped it's not his child. :)
@DIVINEPURPOSE (62)
• United States
8 Aug 11
Right? The poor hubby didn't even know about the child,she comes out of the blue. She was a ex from the previous relationship. He's a good guy, he never cheated. I think I would have to call Maury because it would def. go down LOL! (99.9 NOT THE FATHER)
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@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
8 Aug 11
good thing, you trust your husband so much and he doesn't cheat at you.
Then the point is MAYBE THE EX is a psycho?hahaha
@DIVINEPURPOSE (62)
• United States
8 Aug 11
Oh, yes! My husband is a good guy. He is the best.After almost 20 years, we are pretty much glued. This was a situation or question that was presented to me and found it a bit interesting and thought I'd get some input.
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
8 Aug 11
So why did she not write to him or call him and tell him that her son might be his. By contacting you first, her intention is to break up your marriage. She is not interested in the child's welfare. If it is his, maybe you can talk to a lawyer so that the money he has to pay goes directly to the child and they make sure she does not spend it all on frills for herself.
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
8 Aug 11
She was in it for the money. I see lots of it on the Maury show and then when she discovers he is not the father after screaming and letting all those ten million people watching think he is a jerk, goes on the floor screaming and pounding her head. Then she expects him to forgive her. Well she could have done it privately and got her facts straight.
@DIVINEPURPOSE (62)
• United States
8 Aug 11
I totally agree... talking to a lawyer would be a great thing but 5 yrs old out of 6 yrs sounds a bit phony. In cases like like this i am so blessed that I have never had to deal with it but feel sympathetic to those that do!
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@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
8 Aug 11
Ok..You're married 6 Years,this child is 5...Last time I checked,Human Pregnancy lasted 9 months,so unless Hubby was being unfaithful 3 Months after getting Married,The child's can't be his...Check the dates corresponding to the Birth..Sounds like it's a good time to get a Paternity test done...
@DIVINEPURPOSE (62)
• United States
8 Aug 11
Right? Something does not add up! Speaking Psycho! Somebody's lying. Maybe she needs help or prayer!!
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
8 Aug 11
i would be very disturbed. especially since my husband swears up and down that he will never cheat on me and treats me like a queen. he also says he is not attracted to any other woman since he met me. i would basically never trrust anybody ever again after something like that because my husband means so much to me and i trust him alot which is hard because i dont trust many people
@DIVINEPURPOSE (62)
• United States
8 Aug 11
Relationship and commitment,is very important and says alot about a relationship. It is very hurtful when someone betrays your trust. It is also a blessing when you find someone that you can trust especially when you have been betrayed in the past. In a case like this, where the man has no idea because it was a previous relationship,I am sympathetic because there are so many women like this, look at Maury Show.
@JOIEMARVIC (2335)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
Oh my. I would never want to be in that situation. But if I do I would try to compose myself and act like a civilized and educated woman. I would talk to the woman and would tell him to meet my husband some other day. I would also talk to my husband about the incident and will start to do something about it after hearing my husband's side.
@DIVINEPURPOSE (62)
• United States
9 Aug 11
Great answer! I would have to say honestly that it would be a difficult situation to deal with. If I were in that type of situation, I really know what I would do. Prayer would definitely be one!
@lilbabycatapillar (497)
• United States
8 Aug 11
I would ask my husband about it, not her. Chances are it would not be beneath her to lie about it. Besides, it would be odd if she turned up 5 years later, instead of earlier on. I think I should be able to trust my husband enough to believe what he says, because I don't think I'd be quick to accuse him of cheating at all. If she persisted and still wanted money from him or whatever it is she was looking for, a paternity test would take care of that and then she can be on her way.
@DIVINEPURPOSE (62)
• United States
8 Aug 11
True... that's the best thing about having a good relationship where there is trust and communication. When a relationship is broken or hanging on by a limb, it can definitely cause a strain and marriage problems.Believe it or not, there are women that will do that for the money and have these guys paying child support only to find out that the baby is not theirs!I so often wonder why many of the men never get a DNA test though before paying.
