Was I Wrong?!

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Hey Guys.. You may or may not have noticed, but I havent been here for a few days, but Ive been pretty rushed off my feet.. Anyway I had abit of a problem the other day, in which has resulted in my opinion being altered of a few individuals and I just had to share with my fellow bloggers as I need some external views.. An old family friends of my Mums was having a birthday party.. and basically EVERY year my Mum and my sister turn up without fail.! Anyhow.. this year, after many dramatic family events my Mum wanted us all to turn up to this as a FAMILY and to just have a nice time together.. so I finally agreed to go but ONLY if my sister went with me.. Okay the whole source of the whole night buggering up.. was a 15 year old physically challenged teenager- see the thing is I dont know the exact/correct terminology of what his condition is but basically I WANT TO MAKE CLEAR his mental capacity of understanding 'right and wrong' is not affected by his disability.. Okay all I know is that me and my sister were the main 'victims' of this teens antics- as soon as we turned up he was grabbing us with his 'good arm' and would kiss your face off.. and at first, we laughed and joked about it, more out of embarrassment- but he kept doing it!!! Over and over and over!!! SO it got to the point where every time he approached me or my sister, I would push him away by putting my hand over his mouth.. his parents would tell him to stop but their efforts were weak.. my Mum would defend this too.. As the night progressed, it got to about 10pm and my Mum, my sister, myself (of course), that teenager, were standing in the living room- and everyone else was in the garden.. and to make this as easy as possible.. lets put it this way- there was a possibility that the people outside COULD have seen what happened- but it didnt really matter whether they did or not the humilation in itself was enough... BASICALLY THIS TEENAGER- HAD THE CHEEK, THE AUDACITY TO PULL MY TOP DOWN IN FRONT OF EVERYONE!! I MEAN COME ON.. HE GRABBED THE FRONT OF IT AND MY BRA AND JUST YANKED!!! So Ive lost my temper STRAIGHT AWAY- HOW DARE HE!!! Told himto get out my face, using the *F* curse word.. and my Mum who had first hand witnessed what this kid done, jumped to his defense!!! Which Infuriated me.. honestly.. I mean all these years I kept my body to myself and now I couldnt tell you how many people have seen me.. I know it may seem minor to some, but to me it is MASSIVE.. Im the kind of girl that doesnt even feel comfortable taking my socks off in front of a man.. even one Ive known for years- THATS JUST ME.. I CANT HELP IT.. So Me and my Mum had a MASSIVE fight, because I tried to get her to understand how I felt.. and it just wound me up more and more- because she was making excuses for him.. 'thats the way he is though..' and other phrases to that effect.. so I told her.. so hypothetically- (*GOD FORBID IT EVER HAPPENS*) If one of us girls got raped, would she make the excuse then?... SHE HAD NOTHING TO SAY- ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!! I tried to explain how Invaded and humiliated some kid made me feel, but she just would not understand.. AND I KNOW THIS KID HAS NOT DONE THIS TO ANYONE ELSE BEFORE!!! MY SISTER EVEN CONFIRMED THIS (*AND SHE HAS KNOWN HIM FOR YEARS- SHE PRETTY MUCH GREW UP WITH HIM*) Guys, was I wrong?.. I know I hurt my Mum with some of the things I said and I did feel extremely guilty- IT WAS THE FIRST EVER MY MUM SAW ME SMOKE..!! She knows I smoke, dont get me wrong (*and she HATES it*) but I have NEVER smoked in front of her..it was mainly HER that got me so angry, not the action of that kid although I seriously nearly knocked him out.. Have your parents ever done this? Please help.. I dont want to lose my Mum..