8-year-old girl is missing
By nakula2009
@nakula2009 (2325)
Indonesia
August 7, 2011 11:15pm CST
I wondered for some time, why there are children in the world if you do not want to take care of it.
Excuse my anger, but stick to the topic.
Yesterday a little girl is mising, just 10 minutes from home.
Mother or father is behind the house, or watching TV, or where?
Moreover, children easily come home from the nursery, taking children from the nursery to pick up.
Are they just for lazy people, who get the net ready to go 10 minutes walk and pick up their children.
That to me is the only clean in the head.
And if the parents work, you can make it out somehow, which is fast becoming a bastion break forth, the little girl was taken and brought to a grandmother or a girlfriend, right?
But however did you know that our country is not a safe country for children anymore, because psychopaths and pedophiles.
What do you think about the parents? And should parents who violate the duty of supervision, or have no desire to protect their children, punish hard and put in jail.
Ok, I know what some people would say: You're punished enough anyway, because the girl was missing.
But there are still primarily blame the parents off because they want to increase the net underneath to protect the child from the nursery to pick up.
How do you think?
I'm over reacting, or you think just like me
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12 responses
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
8 Aug 11
Some parents could really be irresponsible.As parents we should always be on the lookout for the welfare of our children.
Believe it or not , but until now, that our daughter is already pursuing Medicine, we always make it a point to ask where she is at anytime of the day. It makes us secure to know where she is always. And to think that she is already a lady.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
8 Aug 11
I agree with you friend really some parents are irresponsible and lazy then not take care of his child. Parents should always watch where is there child. I pray from God she should get as early as possible.
@shskumbla (3338)
• India
8 Sep 11
May be they went to play with their friends? One thing,- children have no eager about their parents
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
11 Aug 11
This is very bad what happened in the past for taking time!
But to blame the parents but is probably not your serious! Anyone who has children is not to write!
In addition, an 8 year old child go to his school already able to play alone, even if it only vacations are! One should impose these people lay hands on the children removed from our society and not blame the parents!
I find this attitude reprehensible!
@kendedes2011 (2712)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 11
Without words!
I imagine just how it would have been to have had with TEN (!!!) years THOSE parents!
With ten years of the child may not get out alone, I'm stunned!
The child is now either already in puberty, or soon come in, and will eventually be too youthful.
What do you mean, what will have as teenagers or even adults for FEAR, the child, if it had never before been out alone!
I'm surprised that your children actually has friends!
The child comes to secondary school but soon! Since it is ge***t is made ??totally ready, if s from mom! Because you should be at their best all the time to be there, and say to the wicked, evil children: "You know, that does not make it but" Just the child lack social skills, or even teach conflict resolution strategies! So it's nice too dependent on you at 50!
On it money, job, career sucks, but belongs to the healthy development of a child there but having to depend not only on Mummy's apron strings!
I have a feeling you're the child as dependent are you on?
Since I was 5, I was (SHORT TIME!) With other kids in the park and playground.
Since I was 7, 8, I went to school alone.
I was sitting with 10 x 4 hours alone on the train on the way to grandma, and my ALL TIME was in town and park!
Lock it in a cellar but equal!
@dayangsumbi2010 (1724)
• Indonesia
10 Aug 11
One must be open and honest with them and say: Look, there are very bad people who kidnap small children, go and never with someone with "We were at that time also enjoined forever And we never went along with people.. although we were also addressed again. Logically, there is something else, when force is applied. As you can unfortunately only trust in God.
You can not ALWAYS be careful. Children are not stupid.
@saparidiki64 (594)
• Indonesia
3 Sep 11
This is very bad what happened in the past for taking time!
But to blame the parents but is probably not your serious! Anyone who has children is not to write!
In addition, an 8 year old child go to his school already able to play alone, even if it only vacations are! One should impose these people ay hands on the children removed from our society and not blame the parents!
I find this attitude reprehensible!
@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
8 Aug 11
I must say that they are lazy. They just think that nothing bad could ever happen to their children. Or even passing their own responsibility to their children telling them that they are old enough to do some things on their own. Obviously those are just lousy alibis to avoid the blame. Parents are different just like kids are different. And of course, the parents should adjust and do most of the work and not the kids.
@najibdina29 (1309)
• Indonesia
8 Aug 11
yes, you react on. you make millions of parents just ... too bad parents.
It is horrible what happened. but you'll never be able to prevent. if you do not 8 years from the eye can, then maybe something happens to them at 14 or 16 years. you can not close off the child. you can not leash it. and you can not protect sometimes.
@bouncybug (614)
• South Africa
8 Aug 11
No - I don't think you're overreacting. parents do need to be responsible for their kids, that is what they signed up for when they decided to become parents. It would be wonderful if we lived in a world where everyone was happy and friendly and we could allow our children to wander the streets and know that they would come home safely, but the reality is that we don't live in a world like that. There are some sick people out there and we need to super careful about watching our kids, or else these terrible things could happen.
@thetis74 (1525)
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8 Aug 11
You are absolutely not overreacting. i know i only have to walk two minutes to school to pick up my four-year old and once I am outside the gate I could see the school gate right away. I think where we live is safe because we have 24 hour security guard roaming around the subdivision. I am pregnant with a placenta previa complication and I am required to bed-rest but i never can't let my child alone when it come to her school dismissal. i always make sure i am already there before she comes out from the class. No matter how safe any place can be, I still can't be at peace having my child left alone like that.
@keihimekawa (2009)
• Philippines
8 Aug 11
I'm not a parent but I'm an adopted child so in some way, I can understand your point.
I call this "lack of responsibility". I don't know their reasons as to why they let their children be all by themselves and let them go "missing" but it's the parents' responsibility to safeguard their children's security.
I'm an adopted child, meaning I was given away for adoption since my real parents can't take care of me but in all honesty, I don't harbor any ill feelings towards my real parents. I mean, at least they didn't left me on the streets or something.
My foster parents raised me real well and with love so I don't have anything to complain to my foster/biological parents.
@pretiNAS (66)
• Philippines
8 Aug 11
that's so bad to hear. parents should be responsible with their children or any kids under them. they should prioritize their children above all. children are so innocent and weak to defend their selves. they haven't explore much with their surroundings. thus, parents at a very young age also affects the way they should be responsible for their children.
