If you talk bad about a friend and she found out, what will you do....

There are things that are left unsaid, so they say. It's clearly applicable to all instances most especially if you're talking about a common friend. I think the best thing to do about this is to tell the truth and be sorry. You see, if you start lying she would be forced to confirm the lie to that friend and things would just go on a cycle that would all end to disaster. I know that friendship might end because you admitted your harsh words, but I hope that you are indeed sorry and will be willing to take the consequence of your words - losing a best friend. The situation's moral is somewhat old and true, it's said that "If you don't have anything good to say, it's better to keep saying anything altogether." Have a great MyLot experience today!

First of all,why would you say bad things about her if she was your best friend?That just means she really is not your best friend.I think the best thing to do in a situation like that is to just admit it and talk about your problems and take the consequences for your actions.TO lie about is just gonna add up to the problem.

I think it would be more honest to admit to it, then apologise, but chances are that it might have lost a good friendship. As to whether the friend is so hurt that he/she breaks off the friendship permanently, it depends on how meaningful the friendship is to him/her, and how easy they can forgive.

Oh there is a gossip girl(the person who intentionally open up to your bestfriend is creating an issue-it is better is she didn't say a thing). Well, damaged has been done.The best thing to do is to be HONEST and be sorry that you didn't mean to say those words. You're just in your hottest temper..You guys will be fine soon.Chill larena :) Happy mylotting..

It would be worse if the things are the secrets of her.Learn from it,and if I were you I would ask for forgiveness from her.

I would totally be honest to my friend a hope that she will forgive me because I am truly sorry. she might hate me for it but it's my fault anyway. I guess that is what I deserve for being tactless. But I would hope she will accept me despite the wrong I have done and give me another chance.

I would probably tell her the truth. I would tell her what I think and what I feel. I can't just run away and escape. I have to face her and talk to her heartily. If it didn't work, the I don't know how would our friendship will continue.