I'm sorry i'm not perfect

I'm confused as to what perfect is? And if noone knows what perfect is then how do we know you are not it?? Honey spend Ur time precious time on earth thinking about more important things trust me as u age none of this matters. I'm 25 and I already say to myself "wow did I really cry over that?" trust me

Hi friend, well there is nothing to shed tears about, this all parcels of life and we have to cope up with this. Be strong in your life. Problems can either make you or break you. A Hammer breaks a glass but shapes the steel. It is purely your choice to be a glass or a metal. I know you must be feeling very depressed and avoided in life. But dont worry God is always with you he has carved your name on his hands see how loving is he. If we shed tears for such things then we will not be able to compete in this world. Be strong my friend There is so much to enjoy in this world always think positive and have a positive approach in your life then see how wonderful things are around in this world. All the best with your life.

Yes, you can always go to Mylot to shed your tears and maybe rant. Avoid those kind of people. But try to analyze what they say. If you think that their criticism is something constructive , then you can choose to adapt them. But if you think they are meant to really demean you as a person, then avoid them. Find friends who can love you as you are.

You really can't please anybody. That's the saddest truth. Whatever you do, there will always be a person who will give you criticisms. But we must not get affected by that. We'll just think that nobody's perfect. Even them who criticize us have their flaws. We must just be ourselves and not mind others. Don't be too sad about that. Just chill and be who you really are. Do what makes you happy. :)

Sorry to hear that tess. Well, some people are just like that. They put more emphasis on what you did wrong however not appreciating you for what you do. Just leave them as is or you can shut them out emotionally. Thinking of it is just bringing you down. Good luck

Aww... I get those feelings too sometimes. Sometimes I feel that the world is against me and no one appreciates me. They say things that kinda hurt but they don't realize it. I can hide it pretty well so people can't tell if I'm hurt from what they say. I don't like feeling vulnerable in front of others. Though, I always try to get over it and maybe the next day, it will be better! =)

Please remember there is no perfect person in this world, I think you should calm down and find out the reason why the people always criticise you, but please don't complain, don't cry and don't blame anybody, on the contrary, you should become strong, you should do your best to make other people like you. Good luck!

Hello Tess, They got nothing else to do and to prove. just like me criticizing people who are in the high ups like the President, but am actually sitting here doing mylotting and paying bills at the same time. it's unfortunately god given right but you know, just like the rocky V said, it doesn't matter how many hits you take, what matters is how you take it and move onnot an easy thing though but you know what matters is that you know who you are and these people doesn't give a crap. they'd probably been criticizing others too

Don't be sorry...you are created like that.....and everyone is....(look who's talking)....i was accused many times of being a perfectionist....I'm an OC....well, I understand and know for a fact that nobody is perfect...so don't feel bad....instead show them your strength.....ignore this people who are criticizing you...you can also take it positively and evaluate yourself how you will improve in those areas that you appear to be weak....it's normal, all of us has our strong and weak points.

Hi tess! Believe me that people loves doing so because of jealousy. Like to downgraded others, love to see them suffer they did that because they do not want t=others to see their weakness. People who really likes to criticizing others are people who never spend some of their time in criticizing themselves. No one if perfect, friend. Don't cry..You just need to showed to them that you are better than them and their thoughts and you can do things better in your own way!!

NObody is perfect. I think all people have experience being highly criticized. Just take the President's case for exampl. Even those famous people like Michael Jackson, Michael Jordan, etc for once in their life were highly criticized but they didn't allow that to trample on their pride or even ruin their life. Take it as a challenge. Tell yourself, someday you are gonna prove to the world that you can be successful in your own way. There's no perfect person in this world. Smile!

You know yourself better and you may judge who is right. If you are right, you needn't to feel bad just ignore them who criticize you. but if you feel they are right you should change your bad habits. Just saying you are not perfect is not right way to judge yourself.

Just ignore people who are mean to you. I hope you feel better soon and cheer up. People who criticize a lot I have learned they are insecure about themselves. Don't dwell on it too much like I do or you will be sad all the time. I am telling you this to save you from the heart aches I put myself through from letting others hurt me so bad...Here is a hug!

Its ok to be criticize! Those words can make you a better person! its up to you how you will take it! But being a better person can make your haters Pissed even you dont put effort! haha

Who is perfect? Nobody can claim perfection as every humankind has been molded with some flows and it is up to individuals to find ways to adjust themselves to reach perfection or near perfection. It is a known fact when we find imperfections in people we generally stop loving them. This may be the very reason they remain imperfect, because they have no one to love them into perfection.

tess__quinan hi oh my dear people who do that to you are not worth your tears. feel sorry for them that their lives are so poor they have to make themselves happy by putting someone else down. they are sorry cases indeed. I have known people like this who can never say a kind word to you , but are always criticizing you. Its hateful but now I let it slide off me as these people are so insecure and have such emptiness in their lives they get cheap thrills out of running down other people. shame on them.My mom always said to me Patsie if you cannot say anything good about others, then Keep your mouth shut, I had just made fun of my best friend and made her cry. I felt so bad when my mom scolded me that I cried with my best friend then told her I was so sorry.. I am glad you have mylot too as I know I have done some crying here also and it really helped me.cheer up those people are not worth the powder and lead it would take to blow them up.

Hi dear... You better know who are you and what to do or how to treat your life.... okay. Dont cry, this world is full of those rotted persons who always observe others demerits but never give a back look to watch how much they are perfect. Nothing can change me because i better know who am i.... just follow about what your heart and brain say... and lets other bark. okay... no more tears. have a great day.

I am sorry to hear this. But,do not feel bad. Keep your head up high. Who is perfect anyway? Are they perfect? Are those people telling you what to do and not what to do are perfect? Don't give them satisfaction with your tears,they don't deserve it. People who love us will accept us for who we are and will love us more for our shortcoming. have a good day jaiho®

Hello tess_quinain, I also hate those people who criticize me but i don't hate people who don't appreciate me. No body is perfect in this world someone is good in some area and some one is good in another area.They should understand it that they are not the perfectionist.If people don't appreciate me it hardly matters but if they criticize me i also don't feel good. Best thing i do in that case is to avoid what they say.

Hey girl. Cheer up. So what that you are not perfect. That makes you more interesting. Cheer up. There is so many interesting ways to live our lives. I'm not appreciated to. So what? I have bad day today too. Do you want to join me with crying? I'mk sure you are wonderful person. I wish you lovely day!