My guy is a cop. I hated cops.

@jonahh08 (261)
Philippines
August 8, 2011 2:12pm CST
I never thought I'd end u with a cop. I hated cops i thought they're arrogant and conceited but now I end up with one and I love him so much. He graduated from college last march and now he's on his way to becoming full pledged cop .
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• United States
8 Aug 11
A lot of times cops get a bad rep because so many of them are so cocky and let all the power and control get to their heads. My boyfriend's dad is a cop and I've never met someone that I've hated so much. I'm not sure if it has anything to do with him being a cop, or if it's just that he has a bad personality. Then I know another cop that owns the barn where I keep my horse and he's not cocky at all. He's a goofy, down to earth guy that doesn't let the job get to his head. I think it all depends on the person. My boyfriend plans on becoming a cop but I don't think he'd ever be the cocky, arrogant type.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Aug 11
hi look cops or police officers is really nicer are just human being good,bad, and indifferent.many are really great men with families and children. of course to law breaking people they are the badies but thats just tough as a good police officer is supposed to stop the law breakers. lol lol lol
@jonahh08 (261)
• Philippines
8 Aug 11
Yeah.I didn't mention that cops have a bad reputation here in our country. Right now I think it's fine with me. I have no choice haha and besides I whatever he is because I love him. I just had this thought when I was a child that someday I will marry a doctor, a lawyer, engineer, business man or maybe a nurse..but not a cop. Lol
• United States
8 Aug 11
lol You can't help who you fall in love with. Being a cop is a good profession I think. I didn't mean cops are mean or anything, I was just saying that some of them can be cocky and arrogant because they think they're so powerful. I know plenty of cops that are super nice and down to earth, while others I know can be real jerks.
@wmraul (2552)
• Bucharest, Romania
8 Aug 11
Jonahh, you actualy didn't hate cops. You only have had some preconceptions about the JOB called police officer. Maybe you "hate" the title or the job, but you have no reason to hate the man behind the uniform. And mother Nature, or life, or Faith, or karma, name it as you want - have just served you a nice peacefull lesson .
@jonahh08 (261)
• Philippines
8 Aug 11
Yeah you're right Policemen here in our country have a bad reputation so I grew up hating them.
@celticeagle (168420)
• Boise, Idaho
8 Aug 11
Well it just goes to show you that not all people, or cops, are the same. I have dealt with all types of policemen. They are taught how to deal with people and each does it in their own way. They have a job to do and the peace to keep. They also have to protect themselves and their co-workers.
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
9 Aug 11
I know a few cops and they are all very nice. I guess some of them could be arrogant and think they are better than everyone else. It depends on the person, after all it is just a job and everyone is different. The thing that I would be concerned about is how dangerous it can be!
@toniganzon (72532)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
Love knows no boundaries! I told myself i would never have a relationship with anybody younger than me but i ended up marrying someone three years younger than me. So you can never really tell who to love.
@Jlyn10 (11965)
• Malaysia
9 Aug 11
Congratulations! Don't worry, not all cops are bad people. Some will handle their duties very well. I'm sure your guy is considered one of the good cops.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Aug 11
hi jonahh08 ha ha well serves you right as police officers are just human beings like anyone else. some good,some bad, some in between. Also it helps if one is brought up to respect the police and not call them cops or expect them to arrest you just for blinking at them.