Who would you choose to be with??

If the person I love loves a different lady other than me, I think, it would be best for me to choose the one who loves me. Anyway, love can be learned. For sure, my feelings will be developed towards the person who loves me sooner. :D

I choose the one who loves me. In time i can return that love with much more of respect.

Even if you already give the situation but it still depends on the person who loves us. If we really can't love the person who loves us then I would prefer not to be with anyone.Just be with myself~(^^)

Neither, both will give you a roller coaster ride. He loves you but he's way of pleasing you might make you feel nausea and suffocating. If you loves him but he does not loves you, duh what a waste of time. Keep on searching its not the end of the world.

What a tangled web we weave. Who will I choose, well, lets see now. How about this for an answer. None of them. I do not want to be with some that does not love me and I do not want to be with someone that I don't love. So, logic will dictate that the choice is simple. Neither of them. I would keep looking for someone where the feelings are the same on both ends.

If I chose the one that did not love me, I would always have to worry about that person being faithful or not. Plus I would have the bear the fact of being the second choice. That is no way to live. That is a recipe for disaster. Furthermore, this person's heart is taken. There is no place for a love for me to grow. If I absolutely had to, I would go with the person that loved me but that I did not love. I would feel bad for them, but I wouldn't have to worry as much about betrayal. Even though my heart is focused on someone else, I know myself and in time I could let go. That means there would also be the potential for a love of them to develop.

this is a bit obvious.. i will be with the one who loves me but should be of my type. If she is alot different than what i thought i would live my life with, then i think i wont be happy.

I guess both situations will make you suffer. Love is between two people involve in the relationship. I've been in the same situation like this and It's hard also to love the people who loves you but you don't love in return. Even though they can make you happy, you will not be happy either. I'd rather be alone and lonely. I'm willing to wait for the right guy for me than suffer for the rest of my life.

I will choose the person who loves me for it is hard to be with someone who doesn't love you back. It's the hardest thing ever! it's really hard also to be with someone whom you don't love but hoping in the long run, i will learn to love that person..

I would choose the one who loves me even if I don't love the person. It is never hard to love someone who loves me. I can be learned. If I go with someone whom you love so much but doesn't love me, the only thing I will learn is how stupid I am to put myself into fire and get hurt. I love people who loves me and I will definitely love the person in return because that is what he deserves.

For me, if the person who loves me is responsible and a good guy and a guy who can make me happy maybe I will choose him but if not I rather stay single than to be with that guy who cant make me happy. .Because if your happy with that person you will learn to love him sooner or later . .Than to stay with the person you love who loves someone else and always give you heartaches. .