Do your children have their favorite cups and plates?

@myfb2009 (8296)
Malaysia
August 8, 2011 8:03pm CST
I discovered that my son will tends to eat more and even drink more when he was using his own cup and plate. He seems to prefer eating and drinking from his favorite set of cup and plate. I just observed it and discovered this weird habit. Why children have this kind of interesting way of eating and drinking? Is every child have this same kind of attitude? Have you observe your children eating and drinking habit lately?
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@beingwell (3625)
• Thailand
9 Aug 11
Hi myfb! How are you? I miss MyLot!!hahahah!! I don't have kids yet; but it's me who have this fettish on cups and plates and place to seat at the dining table. I have to sit on this one place one. And have to use this place and glass. I also have my own cup for my hot beverages.hihihihi, It's crazy, I know. But it's just how I want it. I enjoy eating more with my stuff, so what!hahaha!
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@marie2052 (3691)
• United States
9 Aug 11
You are just to cute! But I am the same way I have certain cups I like to drink my hot tea out of. And I have my favorite glass for cold beverages too cause it has a handle on it. So I understand perfectly how you feel.
@beingwell (3625)
• Thailand
9 Aug 11
Hihihih.. So you also understand now how your child feels like, right? And now I'm thinking your kid got it from you!
@beingwell (3625)
• Thailand
9 Aug 11
Wait! I didn't notice that it you marie, and not myfb whom I responded to! hahaha!! My bad! Have a good day, anyway guys!
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
9 Aug 11
My daughter has a FORK that she prefers over every other fork in the house. It is one that does not match the other ones. She has her own cups and plates and bowls as well, but that FORK.....drives me nuts sometimes.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
11 Aug 11
Yes, she complains about it.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
10 Aug 11
Yes, my son always eat from his own plate with his own spoon and fork as well. I always make sure that i had put them back at the same place, after i had clean them. So, my son won't complain. Is your daughter always complain if she can't find her fork and other things?
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
9 Aug 11
Yes. My daughter used to have her favorites when she was growing up. I think alot of kids have a favorite.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
4 Sep 11
Yeah, i had seen many children tends to have their favorite on certain things. I think it i a good habit for them to have some favorite items...
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
9 Aug 11
they did when they were little but now that they are teens, not so much. however, i have a favourite fork lol!
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
16 Oct 11
Hi Cher, it is good that your children are in their teens, and should be less demanding. But wow, your self seems still have this kind of preference. Do you bring along your favorite fork when eating out? Sometimes, my son do have this habit...
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
9 Aug 11
My 2 year old daughter likes to drink out of a bottle that had a honey color tinge to it. My 4 year old disabled son likes to drink out of a bottle that is transparent. They both enjoy drinking out of a box with a straw. It is a strawberry flavor soya drink in that. In their bottles they drink plain soya drink because we are a vegan family. At nursery my son had a blue cup with a lid. He refused to drink out of the green cup just the same type. It is very interesting young children prefer to use their favorite cup and plate.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
16 Oct 11
Maxi, indeed your children have a unique approach towards their drinking preference. Hope when they grow older, they won't have this kind of preference. Now, i am training my son not to always prefer the same cup and plate when eating out.
@mantis36 (4219)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
the same way happened to me when i was a kid, i have a good appetite to eat if the plate is a sartin type of plate (a metal plate painted in white and the grounding edge is color red) when i drink softdrinks in Wendy's, i have a superb appetite to cola drink because they put that cola in the big plastic container (common container) with a crumbled of ice cubes that wow!!! i want to drink more cola nyahahahaha
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
9 Aug 11
So, seems like not only kid have this kind of preference when come to eating and drinking. I think i will need to observe my own eating and drinking habit as well.
@Shankerj (241)
• India
9 Aug 11
Children have some interesting habits and I love some of their habits, We should support them for their habits which are beneficial for them, some children do not like to eat and parents put much effort to feed them. it is good to provide them their plate, cup etc if they are happily eating in them. yes not only children we also have some preferences for eating
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
9 Aug 11
Some kids do have their own habits of doing things like us adults do. For example, my son has developed the habit of using not only his own bowl for rice, but also using his favorite white blanket even though it is old after many years since he was a little kid. It is interesting though and I find that it is the same with us adults to some degree, namely we have our own habits of doing things. Take care, friend.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
4 Sep 11
Yes, indeed we adults do have some habits of doing our daily jobs as well. Those habits we tends to keep together with us no matter how old we are. I do discovered that my son always have his favorite pillows together with him, to be able to fall asleep easily...
@sql_cell (1427)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 11
I often watched my son eat. During this, my son did not have a favorite cup or plate. My child will eat, with any dish. My son will eat a lot, if the food is cooked with delicious. No salinity or less salty, or with the right seasoning. My son is not picky about food, provided that, the food was delicious my children would eat a lot.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
2 Sep 11
Wow, your son seems not as choosy as my son. Regarding food, my son also don't really choosy about it. Same like you, as long i cook deliciously, he will eat a lot without any complain...Only my son is choosy about his plate and cup as well.
@rikell (25)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
my son also loves to eat and drink with his favorite cup, plate, spoon and fork. He also had his favorite toy that he loves to play, his favorite cartoon character and has favorite movies that he always watched repeatedly everyday. I think that is normal for a child to have their favorite things which they love to use, to look and play, have favorite food...That's why they are called a CHILD...
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
4 Sep 11
Yes, i think you have a right point. It is indeed usual for each child to have their own favorite things to eat, drink and play. I discovered that my son just loves to watch Spongebob squarepant. He seems not feels bored watching this same picture or even movie repeated everyday.
@xuyxuy (432)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
My children were like that too when they were still kids. First when we went to the kitchen ware of this department store and grab the set of plate and glass. Then every meal they make it a point that they are using this same plate and glass that they had just let me bought for them. If that plate was not used by them, they will eventually look for it and use it. Then they will have a good appetite for that meal then. Also if we eat out and the dinner set that was used by the restaurant is very nice, again they will consume all the food or order more. As a mother I just let them choose their preference as long as it would give a good result.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
14 Aug 11
Yes, sometimes it is difficult. We can't decide everything for our children. Children are very choosy and tends to choose to eat their food in their choices of plates and glasses.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
Children want their own identity too, when it comes to their things. It is typical of every children to feel that way, specially when it comes to their eating utensils. Eating in them would always be a nice time for them. So, when you feed your child , always make sure that it's her/his utensils that you are using, lest he/she will let you transfer the food you already prepared to his /her own utensils.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
9 Aug 11
Yes, there are a few times when i forgotten to use his plate for putting the food. I saw him go get his own plate and put the food into his own plate. I see him, can't have a day without using his own cup and plate.
@r3jcorp (1382)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
My daughter does not have a favorite plates and cups, but she does have her own favorite glass. It has prints of her favorite disney princess that's why she loves it.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
2 Sep 11
Wow, it seems easy to pleased your daughter. As for my son, he have many favorite things, so only me able to understand what he want. That's why, he prefer to stick to me for most of the time...
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
Yes, she have her favorite plate and cup as well as her fave pillow. I think most kids is like that. Some things are special to them and they became very attach to it. Eventually, this will pass, this is just normal because this is their comfort zone as of now.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
10 Aug 11
Thanks for this good sharing. Seems like, every kids are having same habit. Yes, indeed my son so have his favorite pillow as well. He will need to hug that pillow to be able to sleep well.
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
Growing up as a kid before, I would really prefer to have my own cup and plate set. It made me feel that I own something and aything put inot it is just plain mine. Maybe that's why kids tend to eat more with their own kind of plate and cups. Maybe it is a bout the sense of comfortability that lies with owning the cup and plate. When you are most comfortable, you tend to enjoy doing things. That's the reason I am able to think for such a phenomenon.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
4 Sep 11
Yes, i think you are right that children tends to like to own something so they can feels comfortable with it. That's the reason why, they tends to eat and drink a lot when they are giving the food and drink using their own preferred plate and cup....
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
16 Aug 11
My children were not like this and I agree...it is a strange habit. I suppose though if a kid was a finicky eater and was given "special" plates or cups etc and that got him to eat then it's a good thing.
@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
9 Aug 11
When I was about six years old and living at my grandmother's I had a cute cup that I would drink out of. It was green and inside down at the bottom was a frog. I remember things I didn't care that much to drink I would drink if it was put in that cup. When the liquid got low you could see the little frog down at the bottom and it would always make me smile. My child have had favorite plates with Disney characters like Pooh that they like and will use more that others.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
14 Aug 11
When mine were little, they had their own sets of cups plates to eat from. They still do tend to have a favorite cup. It's funny you mention that because I think when I go to get a cup or a glass...I have a preference too..lol.
• Mexico
14 Aug 11
Hi myfb: I think this is interesting. For kids, they feel interested abojut the color and the shapes so giving them a special plate is a good way to stimulate them to eat. that's a good strategy. In my house, we are all grown up so all the plates are just the same but I can tell you that I enjoy drinking on my favorite glass which is the longest one . ALVARO
• United States
20 Aug 11
Yes when my kids were younger they did have their favorite plate and cup. As they got older they tend to favor a certain type more so then the actual favorite ones. Same with me as I do not like to eat off plastic plates and or drink out of plastic cups. This falls the same with my kids too.
• Philippines
13 Aug 11
they can identify themselves to certain character found in a plate or cup. my kids have different preference, one likes spiderman and the other spongebob. these somehow increase their willingness to eat more.