When parents yell...

Why do so many people suffer from constraints such as the control freak? Also, the disease is ultimately due mostly to low self-esteem. Lieselotte had the compulsion, any of their actions in advance to check several times to see if she was right. At work she wondered constantly whether she had done everything right, had not forgotten or overlooked. Why did she do it? As a little girl she was very often punished if they did something wrong. Her parents did not go through and insulted them as stupid and incompetent and punishing them physically. During this time she learned that it has serious consequences if you make a mistake in life. She began to doubt herself and her abilities , and a fear of the dire consequences they took to advance in everything they did was to check to see whether it was right, too. She believed she could prevent compulsive checking that they made a mistake, for which they could be punished.

The child learns: Misconduct leading to undivided attention. Praise takes 30 seconds. A criminal action may take up to 3 hours or longer. Is not it nice to behave incorrectly for a child? 3 hours care in which the parents all about me. Furthermore, the child learns: Who screams and beats is always right. And during puberty, the child will then also be violent, because it has no respect for other people. There has never learned to practice respect, because it has been shown him no respect as a child.

It doesn't always have a negative affect on children! My brothers and sisters and I were raised like that, and we are just as normal as anybody else! My cousins, and neighbors kids were the same way, and there is no adverse affect on anyone around here! It does show who is the dominating leader, shows direction and confidence on who is running the show, and this is really important, because you don't need to be raised apprehensive all the time, with the fear of dominating or making decisions!

As parents, we must be careful in educating children. Educating children with violence, bringing harm to the child's development. Parents always feel the most correct, and always reasonable for the good of the child. In fact, unconsciously, what parents do, bring harm to the child.

Those who have no children, often not understood that you can get it really done, to yell at his child. However, even moms and dads are not the peace itself, and the daily balance in person. Earlier, when I had no children, I could not understand why some parents yell at their children or even beat the worst case. Although I maintain that beat is NEVER necessary. I am now a mother of two children and can only say that so blown back actually to his own limitations and that if you have already several times stated clearly in a normal tone of what you want from the child happy and it's not does, indeed is sometimes loud. This has nothing to do with the fact that one does not love his child. I love my two children about everything, but there are simply times when you feel overwhelmed and can then they're going to scream. If this happened once to me I know I have not done the right thing now and this knowledge leads to the fact that I am with my children sit down and talk with them about what's going on with me just why I cried. So we can resolve this conflict but still good and I do not think my kids wear them any damage. Raise your hand against a child, which may happen in my eyes but NEVER, because it can carry an emotional injury which they never forget so quickly.

Whatever you say about the negative behaviour of children happens at childhood only. After they grow up they realises all the negative consequences of their behaviour in their childhood.

Every action there must be consequences. I frequently yell at my son, when my child is difficult to be notified. I really know, there are definitely due to bad with what I do. My son, being afraid of me. But, at least my son will not make that mistake again, if you do not want me to yell.

Hi Parents are only human. I think a child can handle a lot as long as it never really gets scared of the parents. This means that parents have a right to their aggression - but they have to deal to learn, they if to show it in a manner with which the child can - I learn a toddler can "Mama is mad because I cut them, but they has always loved me anyway " What you describe is there but rather an extreme - if parents take their children down permanently, they roar together so that they parry, etc., then that is the self-esteem and the feeling of safety of the children have enormously bad consequences. Unfortunately, because parents can destroy a lot. I think children have also been taught that even Mom and Dad can sometimes be really angry. But you must always keep the security that does not mean that * * that they are in danger of losing their affection. And parents also need to "excuse" to tell their children no one can stop.

Of course it's not good when parents yell at their children permanently, but sometimes these little creatures to drive a white heat and then you do not think the effect and screaming going on time. Anyone who has children knows that this has nothing to do with educational failure or poor parents, it just happens. As long as you do not do it every day and if it was too violent apologizes and explains to the child why, I think no child shall not do harm.

There may be situations in everyday life where one is not around the kids were the entertainment. Has already happened to me in the emotion. I apologize but also and explain why I have so responded. There were situations like a child running across the street or climb too high ... crying is always a sign of weakness, helplessness. Children are like seismographs, and many are aware of their power, for sure. It's all a matter of education, I let it distract me. Who always yells at his child who is cowardly and keeps it small on emotions. Children hold up a mirror to us and they too have days where they do not even want to cooperate. Why do we talk to them from what we take ourselves out too? Every child uses it differently. There are the children who are fearful and gray mice. The others are aggressive and looking to the next weakest. As one goes around the forest, it echoes back. You will reap what you sow ..... Do not come from somewhere.

As is well known,parents are their children 's best teacher.Everything that they say and do will influence their children.When they are upset,if they yell and scream,children see this ,parents who are high srtung may raise children that are high stung as well. of course,if they suppress their emotions,their children learn from that,too. The little eyes are always watching their parents. In fact,some of the most improtant lessons that our children are learning about life might actually happen while parents are doing other than parenting