Test of Love

United States
August 9, 2011 9:32am CST
Okay say your significant other plays a joke on you and gives you a scenario that they cheated on you. It is almost believable. You both love each other very much. The person who played the joke was my lover. I love him so much, more than he can imagine. I laughed off the joke, but I asked him not to do it again because I don't like anyone playing with myy emotions. He got angry and flew off the handle because his statement was "If you really loved me, you wouldn't had that thought." My response was that I'm human. Furthermore, I care so much for him and don't wanna loose him. He always harp on communication. I thought intimacy involved sharing even thoughts. I told him it was a thought that his love superceded and was easy to cast down...He took things the wrong way and we had a big argument/blow out. We joke about a lot of things, but I don't think this is something to joke about. What are your thoughts, please share?
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