if you meet your ex
By adhyz82
@adhyz82 (36249)
Indonesia
20 responses
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
If ever I will meet an ex again, it will be fine for me. I don't have any bad feelings for them and and I hope they don't have any bad feelings for me too. If ever they are already with someone, then I will be happy for them and again I also hope that they are happy for me too that I am also married to the man I love now.
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@whitewingspeak (888)
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
Meeting my ex in an unexpected places makes me awkward. It kinda surprising in another way, and makes me awkward. I dont keep picture of my ex, and i prefer seeing him with his family, not alone..
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@whitewingspeak (888)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
I just have a different reaction, that is. We have different experiences with our ex's, yah i don't say hi and hello. I would prefer not to talk, but i don't have any hatred and disppointments...I am happy now.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
Well,me and my ex has a good friendship so there is nothing to worry whenever we met each other.
I can smile and have some talk with him ..no strings attached anymore and we are having good relationship as friends than lovers.
Sometimes letting go means more happiness and will also give us more opportunities for a better life.
have a good day
jaiho®
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
14 Aug 11
Hi adhyz: I think thatt's a little bit of dramma on this question . I can say that a person should be prepared for this situation before watching a past love. That means to be in peace and having forgiving this person or even yourself for whatever has happened between you. I'd love to see my ex feeling good with myself, without regretting anything and wishing her happiness.
ALVARO
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@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
I will do NOTHING. Why would I care for an ex who wasn't good enough for me. I will definitely ignore the guy, he isn'yt worth my time..
I saw my ex last month and he keeps on talking at me, I ignored him.He seems so annoying and so stupid..I feel pity for his partner..Well, good thing he's away now..He's not bothering me anymore..I don't love him..
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
REAL TALK, of course I am not jealous, you know what the girl is not his NEW partner, it's his old partner..I mean he cheated on her (he courted on me, i didn't know he was taken, im crazy and drunk so i just said yes,but deep inside me i dont love him)our realtionship took for 2 months only. I broke up with him for I found out he was taken(i don't want to hurt the girl,i feel pity for her because her guy is a player) then after a week i dated other guy and had a relationship after months and we're 4 years and half now..
@jmay1226 (97)
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
It's fine with me seeing my Ex's again.. giving her smile for his wife is not a big deal with me.. They are part of my past and I would be glad if I see them again also because they became part of life sometime.. I can never forget my Ex's even how bad/good our experiences because we've been together at times... I will be glad to see them again because I also wanted to see how are they just like chatting with old lost friend..
XOXOXO....
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
That's so sweet of you ate sameh..
Thanks for being so updated here in mylot..Please be more active..
@my_january (967)
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
Hmmm, my ex? I haven't met him or heard about him for some time now. And maybe, he also hasn't heard anything about me either. And I think this is good for the two of us. But if I will meet him or see him on a picture smiling for his wife, then I will be happy for him that he finally settled down. Even if it's not for me, I'd still be all okay. My ex and I wasn't in good terms when we ended up as I caught him with another girl. So I guess, I am thankful that I did not end up with someone like him.
@my_january (967)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
yEs I decided to go after discovering that he is seeing a woman other than me. I don't know what to do at that time when it feels like I can't live anymore. I still can remember what was I like when we break up but I don't want to go on with him anymore because of that situation, once trust is broken that's it. It was 4 years ago adhyz82, and I have forgiven him and myself for everything. I have moved on.
@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
10 Aug 11
I am actually friends with many of my exes, so it would not be a big deal for me to see them again. In fact, there are a few that I actually hang out with from time to time. We do not get together much, because our schedules are different, but when we can we try to get together every few months or so just to hang out. It may seem strange to some, but just because we could not work out as a romantic couple does not mean that they were not nice people and we were not friends.
@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
10 Aug 11
Well, I guess that it depends on the reason that the couple broke up. Many of my break-ups were over the fact that we wanted different things out of our lives at that particular time and had different priorities. I liked being with them (and they felt the same about me) and we were friends, but we just didn't want the same things from a long-term relationship. Therefore, it was a lot easier to remain friends as we genuinely cared about each other.
Also, I had a child very young, so I was more focused on things that I thought were important in life. I still had fun, but I didn't do some of the silly and carefree things that some of my other friends did, because I had someone else that I had to think about and I was responsible for. I think that kept me more "grounded" as I wanted to set a good example for my child, and that included showing her that relationships did not have to end in hate and ugliness.
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@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
hi,
of course for me i will accept it freely come from my heart,i dont have a right to feel something bad for him,even he hurt me in our past,acceptance will be the first feeling should i have to myself,and i will show that i am now happy for him for a new life with his wife.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
hi adhyz,
For me past is past
When someone can't make it to my future then be it
I can say that I am not affected if I meet my ex again
This happened many times and I was just smiling at him and say Hello
happy mylotting
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
nope there is no man right now
It's just I already accepted that he can't make it to my future
I am better without him
@catof1 (683)
• United States
9 Aug 11
uh wow. um if I see my ex, well WHEN I see him again I am sure I will want to tear his head off and make him dissapear into thin air with my eyes. I mean I try not to feel this way about him, but my God he took my son because he started making six figures. So I have a lot of pent up hostility that I won't let loose on him. I will let God Him self handle that little man and his abusive evil ways. I have others ex boyfriends and I would simply smile. I wish them happiness as I am happy with my love my husband now. He is my rock and foundation in life.
@keihimekawa (2009)
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
IF I ever see my ex, of course I'll be civil. The wounds our break up created are fully healed so I can smile and greet him without any problems. I can start a small conversation but I don't think I can immediately jump to the "let's be friends" part :D
@veedee13 (242)
• United States
12 Aug 11
Well there's gotta be a good reason why they are called an "ex" right?I think being mature I would say hi and go on with my day.Past is past and obviously we've both moved on with our life.There's no need to dwell in the past if you're happy in the present
@JL_Beldua (102)
•
30 Oct 11
For me it's okay, i'm happy she found me in exchange for his life, if we ever meet face to face again, i say congratulation to them both, then i withdraw themselves on there way to not be causes of disturbance, and go to a place we did not meet, and i wish them less than they would both be happy.