Sorry to Ask. I Want to Know Your Secret. What is myLot.com For You?

Marikina, Philippines
August 10, 2011 6:33am CST
I am really, really curious to all members of myLot.com. What is really myLot.com for you? You are here because you want to have lots of friends and want to treat this as a normal social networking sites without thinking about money? -- or all you care is to have friends or you are here to have friends and treat this as a normal social networking sites, but deep within you, you need desparately a money to earn a living without being obvious to other myLot.com members? -- because if they knew that you're here for the sake of money, they would call you a 'spammer' like creating more than 'ten discussion topic' which is annoying to some other members of myLot.com or other reasons that I do not know or you are here because you are in need of money, so that is why you treat this as part time work or you treat this as a job? So, what is really myLot.com for you? I just want to know your answer from the bottom of your heart. I am not trying to open up your deepest secret... er... I am just curious or is it just the same as asking your secret of why you are here on myLot.com.
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14 responses
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
10 Aug 11
introvertshy: You are an introvert person. that means u will tell about u very little. Please tell us first what are u looking for in mylot. anyhow let me add on my part-- Mylot - u cannot earn big amounts. u can earn around 1$ if u work sincerely posting many discussions and participate positively. Say in one month u can be eligible for receiving paymnet. This is a place for retired people for whom money is secondary -- for whom they want to spend time -- have some fresh air -- meet new people like introvert - know about different countries, people etc. People come here only if they do not have any other thing to be done.
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• Bangladesh
10 Aug 11
I agree with ravisivan From my site,Its a great place to spend some quality time by sharing ideas and views with all type of persons around the world. Mylot is not about money to me,its about enjoy and meet lots of new friends every day and learn new things from their personal experiences.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
10 Aug 11
dabangladehi: thank for ur comments. U r in Malaysia but belong to Bangladesh. Am I right.?
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• Philippines
11 Aug 11
Very well said ravisian . I agree for what you said! Mylot is not about money and stuff it's about enjoying ourselves in here, expressing our postive vibes. i salute you ravisian
@varier (5685)
• Indonesia
10 Aug 11
Simply said, I am here for earning money too xD. But I am not that desperate for money, so I tend to enjoy discussion here. I have no target about how much posts should I make in a day or so, just following the discussion that I like xD. And then, money come as a bonus :)
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• Marikina, Philippines
12 Aug 11
I also enjoy the discussion here, but the truth is, I really can't deny myself that I need money... he he he -- if only I have a real job outside from home which I may call it a hourly pay, I would not suffer too much by thinking about money all the time that leads me to anxiety... he he Anyway, even if I am stress and my depression is too much, I am still happy.
• United States
10 Aug 11
I have grown to love myLot in the sense that many of the members, though I have not personally met, feel as they are a daily part of my life. I have made some really great friends here and can say that when I am unable to log in here I miss my daily chats with them. I have telephone, email and PM chats with several and being here for a year has allowed me to bond and be close to so many of them, where we share a great deal of wonderful and sad happenings with one another. The earnings is simply a bonus each month but the friendships I have made here surpass any amounts of money. I don't consider myLot as a job and use it more as a social networking site. No doubt if myLot stopped monetarily rewarding several of us would still frequent here but perhaps not frequent as before, as the friendships I developed here would do so more in PM's or would still communicate by other means. So friend myLot to me is a great place where I look forward to interacting with many members continually, where we can share so much without ever being afraid to be conditioned and or judged. I was gone for 2 1/2 weeks and returned today to several, several well wishes and welcome backs that I am excited to have been a friend to many here. There was no monetary gains in the several PM's I received, which take a couple of hours as we went back and forth sharing chat.
• Marikina, Philippines
12 Aug 11
Your response is very nice. No doubt, you have a rate of '10'. Your username is famous here on myLot and I seen it always, but I am not sure about mine. I am too shy to voice out everything. I could open up myself, but not all the time.
• United States
11 Aug 11
Hi nurseclare Thanks my friend I am doing fine now. I created a topic yesterday explaining all the turmoils I encountered during my away time. Sadly things went wrong offline but am back home now and so happy to be here amongst many of you.
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
Hi harworkinggurl,You're definitely right.. How are you? have you seen the discussion of a mylot member and he's looking for you..Good thing you're back.. happy mylotting!
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
Honestly, I used to think of myLot.com as a way to earn extra money, but as time progressed and I continued to participate in a lot of discussions, I found out within myself that this is more than just a way to have extra money, or as a social networking site. In my opinion, myLot.com also helps you to make your thoughts process more actively, thus enriching not just your vocabulary but at least a small percentage of your life experiences as well. I learn a lot from mylot.com and the participants.
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
I want to answer this, at first when I heard about this site, my focus is to have money, so I research for feedback about this site.Some says it is good to earn here some says it is a scam. But then, I changed my focus and just enjoy my time here. The money now is just a bonus. I really ignore this site before, when I make research and I came across Mylot I never had an interest to join every time it invites me to sign up. Now I treat Mylot as a past time a place to hang in the net.
• Marikina, Philippines
12 Aug 11
Me too. At first, my focus is to have money here on myLot.com and I thought, I could earn a $100.00 dollar every month. I thought, this is the same as working outside from home -- an hourly pay? Ha ha ha ha I thought, I could rely here by exerting too much effort to earn enough money for my enrollment fee at school. Now, my mom is the one who pays my enrollment fee at school and I am taking study at home even if I feel guilty every day of my life. She's always complaining about the money, but there's nothing I can do about it. I guess, I have to suffer... he he
@pbbbsra (1214)
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
Mylot is a place where I am able to talk and express my views about a lot of things. I have met different kinds of people from here and I also get the chance to continue writing and at the same time earn on my freetime. I guess there is really no secret about using my lot... I have been in here only fro a week and a half and I dod not even noticed how many posts I already made. I guess enjoying our stay at mylot is the way to make things easier.
• Marikina, Philippines
12 Aug 11
It is true. I am glad that myLot is not strict when it comes to english grammar. This sites is also good for people who wants to learn english.
• United States
11 Aug 11
I met a post in a Chinese website, which recommand mylot as a good english-learning spot, and im check it out. here.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
Well dear to me this is not really a secret. I've been saying openly that my very purpose why I am here is to earn some money while on the net. This is better than spending my time to non-productive sites. With myLot I am getting triple benefits...money,tips and friends. And by the way, if a friend creates so many discussions, that does not annoy me because that also benefits me in a way. If his discussions are interesting to me then that means I can respond on those topics and even if his topics are not within my interest still that does not annoy me at all because anyway I do have the choice of whether to respond or not. Just learn the lesson of turning off the notify button so your e-mail will not be flooded with notifications of friends discussions. I would say we need members who post new topics all the time so that will not run out of discussions here.
@marie2052 (3691)
• United States
11 Aug 11
I come here because I live in a tourist area. It is very hard to make a genuine friend here because between two military bases,beaches, many hotels, everyone is working very hard or spending time at bars. Mylot for me is spending time with quality discussions and responses. I have made a couple of real friends here. I value their trust in me. I am disabled and although I don't look it some days are harder for me to get around and other days are better. I use mylot as a winddown tool as I am going to bed. Reading and writing will make you drowsy so usually mylot is the first and last thing I do in the day.
• United States
11 Aug 11
It is for me a place to meet new friends, share concerns, get opinions and vent. Mylot is safe because there is no bashing here at least not that I have run into. I have met some really good friends here and some of them have introduced me to programs that have really helped in me making money from home. I know no site is totally safe and that is something we have been talking about in my computer class but I do feel safer here in sharing than on facebook. Of course, I enjoy the money too.
@polaris77 (2040)
• Bacau, Romania
10 Aug 11
I am here on Mylot for several reasons,and obviously one of them is the money,I can't deny that I would probably stop being active here if I didn't get paid;besides that I am also here because Mylot is simply the best discussion site in the world and it offers me the chance to get to know many new and interesting things about people who live in remote countries and their culture.Mylot certainly doesn't allow me to earn for a living,but it offers me a bonus which is very useful and at the same time it offers me fun and knowledge,that's why I spend a few hours on it almost daily.
• Marikina, Philippines
12 Aug 11
Ooohh... you are very honest. Well, what I also like in myLot is that I learn to write english even though, I am not that expert. Ha ha -- but it is difficult for me to speak english, and I like reading too. I sometimes forgot to response and comment to the discussion topic and I am looking for a Japanese guy to marry -- I am just kidding.
@iamsummer (192)
11 Aug 11
At first,i come here just in order to earn money.you can't believe the first day i joined in,i spends almost ten hours online to make a post.i have joined here almost two weeks,i find the bigest gain here is not money ,it is the experience toward the trouble in realise.I have read various experience from all over the world,and that is the bigest wealthy in the life.When we got into trouble,we can post here,and there are many smart and friendly person will give you some suggestion toward it.I like to interact with them.
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
Hi introvertshy, I didn't expect that mylot will provide earnings and i can totally earn in this site. I am just enjoying the moment. My first reason that I joined mylot is I want to improve my english and earnings is just a bonus in here. Everything about myolot is great. If I feel happy and sad I used to express my feelings in here and I am never bored here.. Happy mylotting
• India
11 Aug 11
I don't know how others feel about Mylot or why they have joined,But for me it is both.Anything can be found and discussed over here.There are people like doctors,engineers, and many like minded social networkers come here.At least you get the answers once you start on any topic and there are friends to answer for you.So why not come to mylot,its everyones common flatform to reach out and help each other.After all these..we are even paid for what we blabber or talk or write.Since it is a known fact that Mylot pays for being here..this is no more a secret too.
@Doritoes (84)
• United States
11 Aug 11
I am here most of the time because I have nothing better to do. Haha. Partially because you also earn money while posting. I do feel very accomplished when I post responses because I feel that I am thinking and stimulating my brain.. something I don't do often! =D So it's a win / win hobby for me!