If there's no trust anymore

I would say love is bond of trust and accepting the person for what he/she is. Dont lose trust immediately and understand your lover why they lie. Love has power to make any changes, love them more, they will surely change.

i think this is the case that i say it is over. i have experienced this with my first boyfriend. i gave him three chances until i just completely lost my trust to him and called it over.

If I didn't have any trust for my partner, there's no way that I would be able to stay in a relationship with him at all. I trust my partner 100% and I know that he trusts me, but that doesn't mean that we didn't have difficulties in the past. In fact, earlier this year, we had four months apart because of something which was entirely my fault, but I'm lucky that he has given me a second chance and we've been together ever since and we're now happier than we've ever been before. If my partner told me nothing but lies then I would have to end it with him because I couldn't be in a relationship where there was no trust at all.

Trust is hard to regain. If I were that person I would leave the partner because there is no use having a relationship without trust. It would just lead to a constant argument and more war. And i think if she/he lied to you many times, that person would continue to do that. Not unless he/she learns the hard way.

It all depends on the person. Some people are able to just forgive and forget in a way and others won't tolerate that kind of behavior in a relationship. My boyfriend was cheated on his past relationship and he's told me many times that he won't ever go through that again and he's not going to stay with a liar and a cheater. Me on the other hand, I'm not sure how I would react. I love my boyfriend so much that I think if he did lie or cheat, I would end up forgiving him. We're not ever going to do that to each other because he knows what it feels like to get cheated on and we just love each other too much to be with anyone else. I think it takes a really strong person to just end a relationship where the other person lies or cheats. It's something I think would be difficult to do and I admire those that are able to just pick up and walk away from a situation like that.

If there is no trust in relationship so there is no relationship. If you are in committed relationship so both of you trust each other and not lie to each other. My partner knows my temper and my patience. But he lied to me only once during 5 years of our being together. I remember that I warned him if this will happen again this will be over. And he did not lie again.

no, i wouldn't. it would not do the relationship any good. the infidelity will haunt both partners. it is easier said than done to forget. we can forgive but we can never forget.

Is it really proven that he/she was lying or just a presumption? It is true that trust is important in any relationship. A person who just continuous to lie will never be trusted by anyone, not only his/her spouse. There was really a deeper root of why a person keeps on doing the same sin again and again. If the couple will just continue to live a life full of lies, there will never be a growth and direction. Better save the relationship by being transparent to each other as husband and wife.

For me if you are married and have married silence why not as long as he gave the salary in you why not to sacrifice your love and specially if you have children so be good to your husband.

Once a liar, always a liar! Once my trust is violated a number of times, the relationship is severed. A relationship is supposed to be a close connection or kinship with another. I abhor deception. So,for me, there is really nothing worth fighting for. Have a nice day FickleSky.

It is time to say goodbye if your circumstances permit. Sometimes we are so lonely that a sour relationship also looks better than not having any relationship.

When a couple no longer has trust I feel the relationship becomes very sensitive. If I didn't have the capability to trust my partner I personally don't know if the relationship would be able to make it. Trust is essential to a relationship. When someone lies or cheats it really has a huge detrimental affect. It's hard to really know what to expect because at that point I would say I lost my respect for that person. It's hard to be in a committed relationship where you don't have trust or respect.

It is hard to continue in a relationship when you lose trust with your significant other. Trust is one pillar that holds a relationship together and if this is breaking then it is almost impossible to build it up again. First, you have to talk with your partner and tell him that you will not tolerate any of his lies and that if he ever lies to you again that would be the end. If he truly loves you and care for your relationship then, he will mend his ways. But if will not do any effort to gain your trust again then you should move ahead and stop fighting for your relationship. It would be best to separate and still have respect for each other than continue living together when you have lost all the respect. This will lead to contempt and falling out of love. It will hurt but you have take care of yourself also. This would be the best option, I think that you have to do.

If he/she lied "many times" Id lose all the trust I had for them I would leave and move on to someone honest.