2 weeks and i will be MARRIED!
By hushi22
@hushi22 (4928)
August 12, 2011 2:34pm CST
hello guys! i am so happy these days knowing that my awaited day is so close now.
i wonder if i will have some friends to respond in this discussion and actually wish me happiness in the married life. or maybe have some responses on how to deal with a married life. some advices perhaps?
i am so excited! =)
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16 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
12 Aug 11
Wow and Congratulations to you both! All I can add is that you both remember the love for one another and remember that marriage is about compromising and being truth to yourselves.
Understanding and communication is very essential but entering the marriage with always having the need and want to make it will go a very long way.
Congrats again on the big day!
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
16 Aug 11
wow, it's nice to hear the good news. i congratulate you and your husband to be. i too always gets excited with weddings. the last time i attended one where i was one of the sponsors and that was a year ago. it was fun to be in the entourage. happy for you.
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@dfollin (25351)
• United States
13 Aug 11
hushi22,Congrats! I hope that your marriage is as happy as mine was.We were together 10 years and very happy.
@Joe_Black (253)
•
12 Aug 11
Good luck!! And my advice is to just always stay in love. =)
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
13 Aug 11
congratz, if there is one reason why I remained married to the same person for a long time is because we are both none confrontational, we always give way to what the other wants, we discuss among ourselves what is hard to settle
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@nanasuwill (31)
• Indonesia
12 Aug 11
congratulation hushi22...remember the key of relationship is communication..hopefully the communication based on love that both of you create will make your marriage happily ever after once again congratulation :)
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@autumndreamer (3185)
• Philippines
14 Aug 11
Hi, congratulations! I'm very VERY HAPPY for you! I am so excited for you! Every time I know someone's going to be married, I feel like I'm the one getting married.
Thinking about it excites me so much. Congratulations!
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
17 Aug 11
hushi22,
First of all, heartiest congratulations here. I have to admit that I do not know you as a person to be actually giving you advice but I'll just share a few words that I live by which I consider them to be my rules or otherwise life's wisdom.
Give and Take:
The moment we choose to love we begin to move against domination, against oppression. The moment we choose to love we begin to move towards freedom, to act in ways that liberate ourselves and others. That action is the testimony of love as the practice of freedom. - Bell Hooks
Take For Granted:
All intimacy is rare -- that's what makes it precious. And it involves the revelation of one's self and the loving gaze upon another's true self (no makeup, no fancy car, no defensive charm, no seduction) -- that's what makes it so damn hard. Intimacy requires honesty and kindness in almost equal measure (a little more kindness, I think), trust and trustworthiness, forgiveness and the capacity to be forgiven . . . It's more than worth it -- just don't let them tell you it's bliss. - Amy Bloom
Reason To Love:
We are told that people stay in love because of chemistry, or because they remain intrigued with each other, because of many kindnesses, because of luck. But part of it has got to be forgiveness and gratefulness. - Ellen Goodman
Do Not Forget Words:
And what do all the great words come to in the end, but that? I love you -- I am at rest with you -- I am home. - Dorothy Sayers
Who Owes Who:
Even after all this time,
The sun never says to the earth,
"You owe me."
Look what happens with
A love like that.
It lights the whole sky. - Hafiz of Persia
Fidelity:
I don't like to discuss my marriage, but I will tell you something which may sound corny but which happens to be true. I have steak at home. Why should I go out for hamburger? - Paul Newman
Something About Endless Love:
True love stories never have endings. - Richard Bach
Hope you'll find them helpful like I have which has kept my marriage for the past 18 years and I believe for (more) time to come.
Take care.
@OpinionatedLady (5965)
• United States
12 Aug 11
I will and good luck to you both!
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@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
14 Aug 11
Wow first of all CONGRATULATIONSS YOu must be pretty excited coz a new chapter in your life is about to start!! I would if I were you, and a little bit nervous too I guess
Anywya I hope you have a wonderful wedding celebration and have a wonderful future with your partner. Good luck with life and keep us updated about the function
@xcyper2084 (152)
• Philippines
24 Aug 11
Congrats and Best wishes!! The foundation of a long lasting marriage is FAITH, TRUST and LOVE for each other. And always put GOD in the center of your relationship. I'am happy for you that you finally found the one that you will spend the rest of your life with :)
@bluegemini10 (327)
• United States
12 Aug 11
I love weddings, they always make me cry. I hope you guys have many great years together. congradulations. Are you guys going on a honeymoon?
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