in life, having support will develop a more confidence and determination..
By airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
Philippines
August 13, 2011 9:58am CST
hello dear fellow mylotters,
my sister and i have had a chat this afternoon regarding support and determination. that she told me, her classmates in culinary school already finished their on-the-job training and now ready to look for a job as a chef. in addition, my sister told me, her classmate finish it quickly as his parents do give a full support. the reason why her classmate has the determination to do the training and face the job soon.
with reference to the above, i told my sister, in life, there are times, no matter how determined you are to what you are doing if you do not have the support, still, you will feel unsuccessful. but, if you have the support and do not have the confidence and determination, still, you will gain success. as the support will drive you to gain determination at the end. thus, confidence and determination comes first and will work well if you have the full support around you.
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7 responses
@shrijsr (574)
• Bangalore, India
13 Aug 11
hello airasheila.
I agree with what you told to your sister. Its very true that you can win the whole world if you have someone by your side to trust that you can do it, and give you all the support and help us not lose the confidence when we lose. These people help us bring back the confidence within us when we feel that we are low and they motivate us not to give up when we are actually thinking that we lost and planning to leave the things behind. It feels great to have at least one such person with you.
I agree with what you told to your sister. Its very true that you can win the whole world if you have someone by your side to trust that you can do it, and give you all the support and help us not lose the confidence when we lose. These people help us bring back the confidence within us when we feel that we are low and they motivate us not to give up when we are actually thinking that we lost and planning to leave the things behind. It feels great to have at least one such person with you. 2 people like this
@koperty3 (1876)
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13 Aug 11
I think that many people have no support but have determination and goal and they can be successful. I haven't my family support with many things however I could reach my goals thanks to determination. Of course is better when you have the support but sometimes this is not the case and still you have to go forward.
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@somethingbig (282)
• United Arab Emirates
14 Aug 11
Support can really mean a lot to anyone. It acts as a driving force to motivate you and help you make things happen. There are also situations wherein those people whom you have expected to really support you appears to be insensitive or totally not care at all. When face with that kind of situation it is vital to remember that not everybody will agree to what you would like to happen but you have a power to choose for yourself even without their support.
@iamsummer (192)
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13 Aug 11
Confidence and determination really can motivate you make a big progress in the future.The support of you families and friends is the origin of this kinds of confident,with them no matter you fail or make success,i don't need to worried aobut it.When you made a progress,they will congraduate to you immediately.Even if you failled,they will give their unselfish care to support you make challenge again.So build up the character of confidence and determination is the road toward to successful.
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@onewaydream (27)
• China
14 Aug 11
I don't agree with it.
Everyone has his own way of thinking, and maybe very different. And when you are determined to do something at the beginning, maybe it is just a concept, your parents, your good friends maybe can't understand it.
So sometimes it is very difficult to persuade them to support you.
If it is an dream for you, you decide to do. Go ahead. Win your dream, Guys.
You say that if you don't have the support, you will feel unsuccessful. It is possible. But do give up what you are determinate to do, you will feel very bad.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
13 Aug 11
I feel that having support and determination is very helpful. However I feel their are people have achieved wonderful successes without it. For those who are able to achieve many things without help I really admire and take my hat off to them. Their own determination to accomplish and reach the things that they desire as lead them to where they are. I know people who are doing things without help and support. Their efforts really encourage me to do things that I want to. To have confidence in myself to reach what I need.
