house is too expensive

You know in China now your own house means you have a place for household registration. And that household registration means a lot to Chinese. If you have household registration, you can have social security, you may have pension after retire, your children can have health care and basic education. And sometimes you can have enough food to support your life in a hard time. So many girls here prefer to choose a man with house as her future husband, so they can sure their children will have a brighter future than those without a household registration. The problem is not the house, is the household registration. Do not tell me that most poor men have ability to make a happy life in the future. In most case here, no one can provide a security as the government.

Women are seeking stability and starting a family when they settle down. That is why they seek people with homes etc. Sure prices might be crazy high etc but keep in mind you can pay that off over 30 years, all you need is a nice down-payment. If you feel down maybe spend a little more time working on your success and trying to give reasons to impress and never lose sight of the goal, true happiness.