Love me for what I am and for what I am not...

Philippines
August 14, 2011 11:34pm CST
We often ask our partner to love us for we are but we never asked them to love us for what we are not. My lotters, are these two phrases different? if not, please give your ideas how do they differ?
4 responses
• Philippines
17 Aug 11
If you really love the person, you will accept who is he,the whole person he is, you will not change the person but help him to be better..Too much expectation to a person is not good in a relationship..certain differences and in compatability in a relationship but as you get along you will totally undestand and appreciate the person you love.
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
16 Aug 11
Yes, it feels great when our partner loves us for what we are and every relationship used to argue about changing of attitudes and I think it's normal. For every person wants their partner to be a better individual. :)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
I think every woman who is in love is wishing for this kind of love.And not everybody gets it. Those two phrases means exactly the same.For loving a person for who she is , is also accepting her flaws. It is a package deal.I can't see how I can love a person who is always patient with me but cannot accept him because he doesn't talk too much. So that is why compatibility plays a major role on how relationship works.It is how two people are willing to compromise so they blend together as one.
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
They are in the same meaning. We often tells that to men but we forgot that we also have to do it the same way with guys. Its somehow a vise versa.