if your loved one cheated on you...
By ryueneral
@ryueneral (85)
Philippines
6 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
16 Aug 11
Similar to GG above; been there done that and because of the yet worse situation, I myself cannot go through it again. 
I am such a loyal person with my partner that I want the same loyalty back. Sadly my past experiences were so horrid that I can't go through it again.
I am such a loyal person with my partner that I want the same loyalty back. Sadly my past experiences were so horrid that I can't go through it again. 
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
16 Aug 11
Yes I won't give up on love and have been blessed with someone for almost 8 years now that I have never had to worry about. 
@ryueneral (85)
• Philippines
16 Aug 11
ive been through much worse believe me. like every other relationship nowadays cant go wothout cheating...sigh. but we keep on trying right?
@bluegemini10 (327)
• United States
16 Aug 11
I wouldn't except their apology, they went against your love, and you don't deserve that. I would break up with them right away. I hate it when people cheat on their lover. I mean if your not happy in your just talk to them about it instead of going behind their back.
@ryueneral (85)
• Philippines
16 Aug 11
but we are all human and make mistakes right? don't you believe that people can change?
@ryueneral (85)
• Philippines
16 Aug 11
yeah i agree on that last sentence. and there's probably someone else more trustworthy right? thanks for your reply!
@GardenGerty (160949)
• United States
16 Aug 11
Been there, done that, not recently. I forgave him, We were married more than twenty years, and I took care of him when he was dying. I would probably forgive this husband once, as well.
@ryueneral (85)
• Philippines
16 Aug 11
yes, I agree. We all make mistakes. And forgiveness ease all pain right? I think your story is a good one? Isnt it?
@AdalieM (1134)
• United States
16 Aug 11
Once a cheater always a cheater. I don't care how many times he has apologized. When somebody REALLY loves you, they will respect you and be faithful to you simple as that. Of course, I would be heartbroken but I don't think is OK to forgive something of this nature because he will do it again.
@ryueneral (85)
• Philippines
16 Aug 11
oh ok. what if you're separated by distance. and the excuse is that you're not there for him/her? will that be acceptable?
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
16 Aug 11
That's pretty tough and that usually happens in some love affair. If that happens to me now then I will broke up with him, it's hard to fix a broken heart. Or maybe I will do the same thing for me and I'll how he'll be hurt..Revenge is sweet and I know it's not right...
In the end, if he will give his best to please me then MAYE we could give it one last shot!
