Witnessing your ex so happy with his gf is quite off... :(

Hello Elsemarie, I am sorry haven't been following your love problems lately, but I wonder when did you let this guy go? and for what reason? of course, he won't around and make a sad fool out of himself. he too needs to find some one that can make him happy and this is the result of his quest to find some one. So, this was actually a test? I don't know, but if a woman would tell me to let her go, regardless of the agenda, i'd do it. guess you're choice now is only to move on. Have a nice day my friendhope you get over the feeling "quite off"

That sounds horrible for you but in my part if it talks about my ex I DON'T CARE, i don't love any of them now.. And hey what did you mean when you said you shouldn't put your reltiosnhip into test.What actually happens?I hope you could elaborate it if you don't mind..

Let them enjoy, there is no need to feel envious of them.

i think i'd only feel pity if i saw my ex with any girl,happy or not. because i know what she's eventually in for and she probably has no idea.

Yes i guess it is if you still have feeling for them. I think you should leave your feelings for your ex behind when you leave your ex behind and if your not ready to do that then maybe the love is worth fighting for. I hope i spend my life with my current partner, to me he is the one and i know that noone could come between that ex, friend or stranger. Our love is unconditional.

It depends upon the situation. Like in your case it hurt so much especially he is much happier. In my experience testing your partner is not quite a smart idea because in the end we get hurt and there is a big risk involve. I test my man before and we end up fighting and nearly broke up. I know it is difficult for us girls to accept that between man and women it is unfair. So, i hope that you will be ok and that you will fins your happiness in love.

Makes me remember when i saw my ex (first bf) going on trips to many local tourist spots with his current gf when we have not done any travelling when we were together... haha i don't feel any jealousy.. i was happy for him actually.. because i am in a relationship as well. Its just that the last time we chatted, he said they already have broken up... i did not asked him anymore... just thought maybe its just really not for him. i told him i would have been really happy if they are together.

There is no point worrying over spilled milk. There is nothing you can do about it, is there?? I know how much it hurts to see the person you love or once loved, with someone. It kills. But, you have got to try and move on.

Yes being in a situation like that would be very difficult. Knowing that you still care about him and seeing him so happy. Thankfully the person that I wanted to be with more than anyone else for a long time I'm now with. If he were to have been with someone else and I were to see him so happy it would make me depressed. Not all relationships work out with people being so happy. Perhaps this is just a new relationship for him. I think that if down the road you know that he is single perhaps you should tell how you feel about him. If you were in the wrong at some point in the relationship you both could talk about that and get things straightened out. Until an opportunity like that presents itself hang in there and focus on other things. Keep yourself very busy and time will go by. You never know if you don't get back with you, you might meet someone else who you will fall in love with. Patience is hard, but when the things we desire we see it is well worth it.