broken
@dayangsumbi2010 (1724)
Indonesia
3 responses
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
17 Aug 11
Hi,
Positive thoughts always bring you to your destination. The only danger here is not to confuse these feelings with confidence, because then the whole process starts in the pants.
In my experience, these thoughts are very close together. That is why I have already had bad experiences because I was too confident.
Positive thoughts have to learn. To feel confident is something else than to think positively.
Have a nice day.
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
17 Aug 11
If you no longer dependent on that person's standing, there are good
Opportunities for you to be aware of yourself and find your accommodation.
How painful and humiliating your feelings and experiences were -
they say nothing pure about yourself, your spirit and your value.
However, they reflect the deep contempt and lack of love, thoughts and world
Attitude of, I call him abuser resist.
This "be broken" is only possible in a dependency.
Once you (or who you mean as victims) his life without interference from this
Can lead person, detachment is possible.
Due to recognize all the humiliation, contempt, lack of love etc. is in it (the torturer), you'll also be able to distance you from yourself and to take away from his destructive influence.
Show times by a man - of all the properties which radiates good for you - and imagine if you had instead been in contact with this - as you had then developed. The self-respect back you'll find when you realize then that nothing about you is bad or wrong - and what a wonderful development opportunities lie within you.
As far as the knowledge level.
If you (or whoever is meant) to past bad experience
suffer greatly mentally, then you are looking for professional and loving support
on your path of liberation.
@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
19 Aug 11
Who broke you and why?
How were you before?
Were you self-confidence?
Self-esteem can train yourself, where you just think about all his good qualities, his actions fully exercise responsibility and care and to his inner voice (conscience) lives.
After putting gratitude for everything good in life to satisfaction will then be set, and therefore self-consciousness.
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
18 Aug 11
Do you think that such has happened to you? People whose soul, whose self-esteem and self-image was kicked with feet so long until they can no longer even recognize them are scarred for life. Such injuries can only improve, never heal more. You can find the best candidates for this probably under child soldiers in Africa or the Middle East. The man is enormously adaptable, therefore, is also such a battered soul trying to come to terms with the realities. But "self esteem" is likely to be more expressed in the form that was a "taught", which is often the pure violence.
I hope not, that you had to go through such terrible times. / KG.
