NO money, NO honey.. How true? :)

@redphile (2264)
Philippines
August 16, 2011 11:20pm CST
They say that money runs the world, it is a necessity for everything in life especially when trying to impress someone that you love or like, this is something that you should have. BUt if you dont have it, then its like you dont have a magnet (for girls most especially, I think!), how true? How important is money in a relationship? Isn't it that love is the most important thing? Do you believe in NO money, NO honey? Your thoughts mylotters! Thanks!
8 responses
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
5 Sep 11
ha ha well its been a long time thing that people say most about love. maybe because its usual that when you have a love life, you will most probably go on dates... and you will need to spend for yourself and your date. hehe
@redphile (2264)
• Philippines
7 Sep 11
yeah you need money to go on dates bit then it should not be a basis for building a relationship, that love and devotion should be the foundation of two people in love.
@dyeni23 (128)
27 Aug 11
Money isn't the most important thing, however its still a must to have in reality. I am a woman and I'm a professional. However I still long for someone who loves me enough that he can show me that he'll work hard so he can support me and give me and our future family a better descent life.
@redphile (2264)
• Philippines
29 Aug 11
I guess it is just accidental that you double posted. :)
@soulist (2985)
• United States
24 Aug 11
I know for my relationship money is not important other than for us to pay bills. even when we just met and were just dating, money was not important. There are things you can do to "impress" someone or have a good time without money. My boyfriend and I spent time riding bikes around the city and stopping at different points to sit and talk or take pictures. We go to free festivals like the Zombiefest. Money is not important.
@redphile (2264)
• Philippines
25 Aug 11
I know right money is not important between two lovers, two couples who have so much love for each other. Sometimes it may be used by others who are courting or wanting to impress someone but then again, impressions may mean that it is not your true nature. Being true to someone means more than just making a good impression, because the true personality is not being shown by the person you like or love.
@dyeni23 (128)
27 Aug 11
Money isn't the most important thing, however its still a must to have in reality. I am a woman and I'm a professional. However I still long for someone who loves me enough that he can show me that he'll work hard so he can support me and give me and our future family a better descent life.
@redphile (2264)
• Philippines
29 Aug 11
Yes in reality it is a must in our everyday life. It is something that is not a requirement when looking for the person you love initially but if you are to stay together for the rest of your life, when you have already established the relationship then that's when money is gonna be important especially if you are building your own family.
@kat744 (74)
• Kenya
23 Aug 11
Money is everything nowadays, but a relationship which the stepping stone was money never last long. A relationship should be based on the free things in live like love, kindness, trust and many more. Money is supposed to make your life's easier. If you consider it first before you real feeling, soon you will realize that money cant buy you happiness.
@redphile (2264)
• Philippines
25 Aug 11
True that money is definitely a necessity in our everyday life. i also believe that money cannot buy everything especially love and happiness. It should never be a basis of a relationship or love itself, and that we should always take into consideration the personality of the person and what we can do to make love blossom not just some fancy flirtations.
• Indonesia
18 Aug 11
i do not really believe it, friend. money is necessary sphere, but not the top priority. i find my true love without need to take a lot of money.
@redphile (2264)
• Philippines
21 Aug 11
Love is always the priority and money is only a necessity to keep food in the table.
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
17 Aug 11
There may be girls/guys who are interested to pursue relationship for the sake of money but that is not true for all people . If money is the deciding factor in the existence of a relationship then I am sure love has no place there . True love is sacred and unconditional . If money is the criterion to obtain honey then that kind of relationship is transcient and selfish . As we all know love is blind . It cannot be motivated or conditional . One who comes to you for the lure of money will take no time to dump you for another better option .
@redphile (2264)
• Philippines
21 Aug 11
I agree with you that love is sacred and should be unconditional. MOney is an important thing but I dont believe that it should be a basis for loving a person or at least saying that you love the person.
• China
17 Aug 11
well, it all depends. however, no one should pay more attention on money. But money is really a must for life. so you'd better try ur best to earn money to support the family. Any girls keep a relationship with u just coz the money is abaolutely not true love. Money is the only things they care a lot. Open ur mind on this situation, you can find a good girl truely in love with u. good luck!!
@redphile (2264)
• Philippines
21 Aug 11
Money is an important thing but then it should not be a basis for a true relationship or else love will fail in many aspects. Love is a beautiful thing and that it should not be taken for granted and should not be in exchange for love.