Bad Hair Day!
By Toni
@toniganzon (72281)
Philippines
August 17, 2011 3:00am CST
I don't have any bad hair days! Not because i'm stunning or beautiful or have that perfect hair everyday! I just know how to carry them well to make it look pretty all the time.
I remember when i got married and gave birth i suddenly became old. I never cared for myself, my skin and my looks because i just simply thought that i didn't need to coz i'm married anyway. That was a wrong notion. It was my cousin who happened to be a nun who told me i should still remain pretty and young despite having my own family already. She told me she even have regular facials and she's a nun!
I don't take too much time making myself pretty. What i have that makes me beautiful before my husband's eyes and my son is the confidence that i have in me. And i guess i have that overflowing love to share to everybody that exudes from within.
So i have no room for bad hair day at all. For me it's good hair day everyday! Stay beautiful and happy everyone!
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8 responses
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
17 Aug 11
Good to hear that from you and to your aunt nun, she's definitely right tonii. You have to stay beautiful and take good care about yourself...Wish you all the best in your life..
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
17 Aug 11
OH yes i'm glad i listened to her. But since i'm frugal i don't like spending too much money but i still am confident that i'm beautiful and it's not because of what others say. I just want to believe that i have that beauty inside me.
Thanks.
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@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
Yea, you are beautiful toni, aw I contemplate in your pictures I see real beauty (inside and out) even though I don't know you personally I find you really good as you have noticed I keep agreeing with your responses to other discussions (i hope you noticed it ).You're brilliant toni.
I wish
to be frugal too but sometimes I can't stop myself from spending too much.
I wish to be frugal too but sometimes I can't stop myself from spending too much.
@chicksdigscars (5483)
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17 Aug 11
i love this dicussion!! it's so nice that you are so confident and secure with yourself!! you are very pretty though, you must know that!!
i do have bad hair days sometimes, but it's mainly because i'm actually trying to grow my hair a little and because it is bleached blonde, it can be quite frizzy sometimes, and by the time i get it smoothed, its all sticking out everywhere haha!
but i never have a bad dress day, or a bad makeup day, because all my clothes are just me all over, and i dress how i feel, so even if i think i look chubby, in something it won't matter, because how i dress that day is how i feel, so it balances itself out :)
this was a lovely discussion to come into work to :)
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
17 Aug 11
Oh yes i've read how maintaining a beautiful blonde hair can be tough! I won't look good in blonde because of my skin color but i like the way my hair is. Though sometimes i would use some high lights. I had it permed a few months ago and thinking of going back to straight hair again in a couple of weeks.
Always glad to share a nice discussion that could brighten up your day!
@chicksdigscars (5483)
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17 Aug 11
i always wanted my hair permed! but my hair is so so thick, i would end up having afro hair if i got it permed! blonde isn't too bad, if its dyed and well looked after, but i don't even dye my hair blonde, because it's naturally nearly black haha, so my hair is actually bleached, with bleaching powder and peroxide.. so it's reallllly white haha! but i love it :) i've had my hair every colour under the sun though, and i'm fair skinned, so everything kind of suits. i can see what you mean, you've lovely olive toned skin! so blonde would be too harsh.. you def suit dark.. would you ever think of getting some red, like rhianna red, in your hair? that'd be gorgeous! especially with your new sexy tattoo!! :) haha!
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
5 Sep 11
Hi. toniganzon. It is great that you have this outlook on life when it comes to your hair. I usually keep a soft satin bonnet cap on my head throughout the day. I have had bad hair days too and I hope that I don't get them so much. I am very thankful for my pink hair gel! This is definitely a must for me!
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
7 Sep 11
I don't use any kind of hair gels at all. They make my hair feel heavy. Even if i use the most expensive ones.
I've done something new with my hair. I always change my hairstyle every three or six months.
@samaire (154)
• United States
17 Aug 11
If you have huge curly hair you have luck but for the rest of us it's really bad! I have bad hair day almost every day recently. I have to stay at 5am to fix my hair. But i feel so sleepy so i get up at 5.30 and go out at 6 so i don't have any time to fix it like i have to so after an hour it's the same!!! Disaster! I have almost straight hair, sometimes curly sometimes flat. It depends from the we?ther. Disaster!
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
17 Aug 11
NOpe! I have a naturally straight hair that i permed a few months ago. Even when i had my hair straight before i just fixed it up in a pony tail and a bun and would turn out looking great. It's all about the attitude. If you wake up feeling ugly with hair messed up and all, you'll bring that attitude with you and it will show.
@Triple0 (1904)
• Australia
17 Aug 11
You have a very beautiful interpretation of beauty because beauty isn't just the external pieces but the internal qualities. If those around you say you're beautiful, you are beautiful and they don't want you to change in any way. There are so many people out there so self-conscious of their physical beauty and doing anything they possibly can to get the "model" body. Beauty is all about being who you are and I hope so many others will follow your words.
@magnoliadays (7)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
Goodness Toni! I want your hair but more than that I want your attitude. I want it badly. Ever since I've given birth to my son, I have had a bad hair each and every single day. I've worn it every way possible -- short, long, with bangs, tied up in a knot or pony, or just let it all flow above my shoulders. But just the same, it won't go the way I want it. I'm considering having it relaxed for a few hundred bucks jut like my friend did to hers, which gave her long straight and manageable hair, but my other friend tells me that this process is chemical based and would damage my hair in the process.
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
Indeed hair rebonding is chemically based. However try to look for a salon that has milk rebonding. And before deciding to have your hair rebonded please treat it first! Hair treatment might help you instead of going for something with chemicals.
Just keep on reading here in mylot and participating, soon you'll notice that our attitude here can be very contagious! 
Thanks for the nice comment.
Thanks for the nice comment.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
17 Aug 11
Happy Good Hair Day dear
I am not sure but always fail to understand why some people try to look more beautiful than they actually are. For me, I am the way I am, never used any cosmetics except for the shampoo and the soap. Though once a friend gifted me a perfume, it is still lying packed as it was given.
I think we all should be satisfied with what has been given to us by the Lord and try to maintain that way - however some precautions and some caring is always needed to maintain it that way.
Beauty of heart and soul are now a days less important to many but I am happy that some like me still exist.
I am not sure but always fail to understand why some people try to look more beautiful than they actually are. For me, I am the way I am, never used any cosmetics except for the shampoo and the soap. Though once a friend gifted me a perfume, it is still lying packed as it was given.
I think we all should be satisfied with what has been given to us by the Lord and try to maintain that way - however some precautions and some caring is always needed to maintain it that way.
Beauty of heart and soul are now a days less important to many but I am happy that some like me still exist.@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
17 Aug 11
True. Beauty of heart and soul is very rare nowadays and you are a diamond!
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Aug 11
Your cousin is very correct Toni. Not because we are married and have a child already, we should not take care of ourselves anymore. 
The more that we have to look good, to keep our husband from looking at other beautiful women. And to give ourselves confidence specially when we go out to be with friends.
We don't have to be fully made, but just make sure that you are well groomed , smelling nice and presentable is very good enough. But it's really nice to know that you have the confidence of a woman.
Bad hair day? Oh sometimes i have that, when my hair seems to be frizzy. I fix them with a cuticle hair serum.
The more that we have to look good, to keep our husband from looking at other beautiful women. And to give ourselves confidence specially when we go out to be with friends.
We don't have to be fully made, but just make sure that you are well groomed , smelling nice and presentable is very good enough. But it's really nice to know that you have the confidence of a woman.
Bad hair day? Oh sometimes i have that, when my hair seems to be frizzy. I fix them with a cuticle hair serum.
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
17 Aug 11
In my case i just tie them up in a bun like the ones you see in my profile pic! Fast and still looks great!
