Confused and Broken Hearted
By ronita34
@ronita34 (3922)
Canada
August 17, 2011 5:22pm CST
Everytime that I seem to fall in love my whole world always ends up being torn apart and I wind up broken hearted and hurt. I am a good woman to I cook, I clean, I give the best massages, I have a great personality, good looking, I am always happy and the fun to be around. As well as I am pretty great at taking care of private business lol. I don't understand why I am always the one hurting and crying in the end. Maybe I just love to easy or maybe im just a push over and too nice.
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@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
I don't really believe that there's a perfect guy, but somewhere out there there must be the right guy for you, perfect by your standards. You probably just have to look a little harder and pray. There's really nothing wrong with experiencing pain as long as it doesn't break you into something worst, just as long as you can pick yourself up, learn from it, and grow into a better, stronger, and more beautiful person. Eventually, things will work the way you need it to be, because I believe in justice and that's what we deserve.
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@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
18 Aug 11
well thank you your words are rather comforting. I guess you are right though whatever don't kill us only makes us stronger but it makes life alot harder I guess only to make us stronger. Thanks again and sure hope that love works out for me sooner or later because I ain't sure if I can handle another broken heart :(
@MagicalBubbles (5103)
• Canada
19 Aug 11
Im sorry you're in such pain. 
If someone had an answer to your questions, they'd be very rich. We dont know why we fall in love and then find out that the other person is not that much into us. Its life and dont give up, eventually you'll find the right one for you, the one who will love you as much as you love him. 
If someone had an answer to your questions, they'd be very rich. We dont know why we fall in love and then find out that the other person is not that much into us. Its life and dont give up, eventually you'll find the right one for you, the one who will love you as much as you love him. 1 person likes this
@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
21 Aug 11
we thank you I have to say you do always have a magical way with words and I do thank you. Everytime I just seem to always put my all into it and then still wind up with the short end of the stick afterwards I sure I hope that I do in fact find my Mr Right soon I am rather sick of this sad dissapointed broken heartedness it is never easy.
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@MagicalBubbles (5103)
• Canada
31 Aug 11
You're very welcome Ronita. I think people now are not into long term relationships anymore. My sister broke up with her boyfriend about a year ago and she's joined a dating site to try and meet her Mr. Right but up till now, after going for a coffee with 10 of them, she is about to give up. I know it sounds flaky to say this but you'll meet our Mr. Right when you're not expecting it. You'll be out grocery shopping and BAM, you'll walk right into him. Dont give up
@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
18 Aug 11
Love and affection ...it is not the one that is easily gained.There are quite a lot of trials,tribulations and hindrances on the way till you find an ideal partner to share your love,conviction and of course belief.Be patient ...time will definitely dawn on you.
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@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
21 Aug 11
I think that is just it that I give so much trust love and loyalty out at the beginning that maybe that sends off vibes that I want to be walked on and treated like crap. Does it or is that just a stupid way to take it because I always wind up hurt who knows maybe its me in general lol
