I think i am gay who i can tell it to my parents?
By agapakia
@agapakia (22)
Canada
August 17, 2011 6:58pm CST
Hi to everyone ...i think i am gay no sorry i am gay and these days i fell in love with a another boy and i want to live as normal it is..the only problem is i don`t know who to tell it to my parents..i don`t think that they can understand..
please help me
3 responses
@rgreentea (96)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
I know that you are in a very tough situation, but there is no other way but to tell your parents of your true personality. You just be ready for whatever hurtful words you might hear from them, what is important you have the courage to tell them. Choose a time where both or one of them is not busy, tell them that you need to tell them something that is very important. At first, they will be shocked with it, but later they will understand you. Parents are always on their children's side whatever happens.
@GemmaR (8517)
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28 May 12
You can't help the way that you feel, and your parents will understand that. You should tell them as soon as you can, and things will seem a lot better for you once everyone knows the truth about you. They might think that it is a little bit hard for them to get their heads around, but they are your parents and they love you, and this means that they will eventually come to terms with what you have told them, and they will always love you just as much as they did before because nothing ever prevents the love that a parent feels for their child.
@aabuda (1722)
• Philippines
30 Aug 11
I am gay. But it is not an issue in our family. I dress up like a normal person, I am not a transsexual, so it is not an issue.
Why bother yourself of thinking that your family will know? In the first place, they should be the one to know it first because they are the one that you face everyday so they can see what your actions are and on how you carry yourself.
My only advise to you is that think of the very things that your family will be proud of you, in that way, they will not think of any gender differences that you have. They will even boast you in every person that they meet.
I am the breadwinner in our family, so I think that is one reason why my sexuality is not being debated in our home. My father knew my sexuality, I have to quote him saying "avoid him". Such words are a great advise on my part because he was telling me to avoid my office mate because he knows his family background. With that, I was in tears of knowing that my family secretly knows my sexuality and that even a single words of dismay, I didn't heard them uttered a word on me.
So with that, strive hard and make money for yourself and support your family. Believe me, they will not hate you....