What you feel being a woman if a man is break up to you?

Right, if he has a respect then he will not broke up with the girl, he might do some mess for the girl to broke up with her. I haven't tried that yet, i will certainly broke up with him first..

A break up is the most painful experience either a man or woman goes through. My experience was so painful such that i shut everyone else out for almost a year. First the break up comes as surprise, so your are in shock for a while. Then it sinks in that you have been left for another and that's when you start going down hill. You start doubting yourself,blaming yourself and even despise yourself a bit. After time passes, there are two routes a woman takes, one is to pick up the pieces and move on while you wait for time to heal your wounds, or becoming so bitter and filled with hatred that you can even become sick out of it. After almost one year, I decided to move on with my life and am happy i did because now am a happy person with a lot to look forward to.

i find no wrong if a man is the one who broke up with his girl, especially if he believes that he doesn't deserve her, or there are things in the relationship that he cannot fight. i had experience it before and i was thankful that he did it. it is more insulting if your man gives you false hopes and serve you broken dreams at the end. it takes two in a relationship to prosper, if one cannot do his or her share, it would just be right for him/her to tell what he/she felt about the relationship so the other won't be expecting something which is not. so that if the man wants to break up because there are things in the relationship that he can't give or simply because he doesn't love his girl anymore, then be it. it would be more painful if he will stay in a relationship and will just cheat his girl at the end for he loves her no more, or he's no longer happy with her. i salute a man who can hurt his girl with the truth than make her happy with his lies, because honesty plays a vital role in a relationship.

Ouch! That really hurt cause generally we woman broke up with them. I experience that also with my current bf. we fight once then he said it's over then the next day he's sorry. It depends also. Whats the reason that the man broke up with you? if it is ok?

I experienced this when my ex of 4yrs broke up with me on the very start of 2010. It was humiliating and my ego was hurt to boot! Worse, he said it to me through text message and I was working at that time. I rushed to the fire exit and my friend noticed it. She followed me and caught me crying my heart and eyes out. During the time we broke up, he never agreed to meet me face-to-face and we never really talked on the reason why we broke up. No closure as people would say. I cried quite a long time and it took me much longer time before I moved on. 4yrs is no joke when you're in a serious relationship.