When is the right time to say yes?

Philippines
August 17, 2011 10:19pm CST
LCM- most of the topics I've heard in the radio station where I used to listen every night before I go to sleep. I've heard one caller asking the DJ "When was the right time to say yes to a suitor?". The DJ said that she was the only one who can tell when was the time. But in my point of view, partly the DJ was right but we have to consider different factors. First, girls always consider security in their part so they usually go for a stable one (sometimes they use this as a tool to their vices and keep this reason as a bribe LOL). Second, her readiness to accept the fact that entering a relationship means having a commitment to a person whom she doesn't really know and willing to know that person better everyday and be with that person through thick and thin. Third, having a relationship is not an accessory but a work. Why?Because having someone by your side means that you have to bring the best in him and he must bring the best in you. Plus, you must have a long patience, more understanding and undying love for him to understand at all times. When was the right time to say YES? If you have read the three reasons that I've stated above. If you've just browse this and I'm missing something, you can add a comment so that others can read it too. It feels good to be loved and to loved someone so why not try it now if you're ready.
2 responses
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
For me the right time to say yes to your suitor is when you are ready for the commitment and ready to take the risk in every relationship . .Ready to accept all the trials that comes along in every relationship . . Good Luck
• Philippines
15 Aug 12
I was trying to search for this article about " When is the right time to say YES to a suitor?" WHY? I have this very consistent suitor for 4 months already and Im just waiting for this right day to come. Im thinking to say YES on our 6th month of courship period cause this is the time wherein I'm 1 year being single with my past relationship and my ideal 6 months courting period. I just need to choose a good place, and plan for this wonderful event. Hope you give me ideas. Thanks. Baby Trina
@watergirl (567)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
Saying "yes" to a suitor is quite different from saying "yes" to a committed relationship such as marriage. I say, a girl or guy can say yes in courtship whenever she/he sees qualities in a man/woman she/he deems necessary for a future husband/wife. After all, courtship and dating is our way of finding the perfect match for a committed relationship. Girls and boys can go through several bf-gf relationships until they find the one with whom they can spend their life together. so girls and boys, don't sweat it. If you want to say yes, then say it.