Do you still trust your bestfriend even she make a big trouble in you life?
By zhawee
@zhawee (873)
Philippines
August 17, 2011 10:56pm CST
People said "dont trust anybody" even she is your family or best friend. Loyalty is a hardly to find it. what if your best friend do something in your life she put you in shame situation, after that she ask forgiveness. Now my answer do you trust her and forgive?
3 responses
@huilichan8 (1378)
• Singapore
30 Aug 11
It depends on how serious it is. I was betrayed by my former best friend twice. After the 2nd betrayal, I kept my distance and was on guard. Now, I still keep my distance. In fact, I no longer consider her a friend. But it's inevitable that I still meet her because we have a group of common friends. Incidentally, this person did not even apologise to me.
@huilichan8 (1378)
• Singapore
3 Sep 11
Ya, I don't need such a friend in my life. Neither do I want her in my life. But I still can't avoid her completely unless I am prepared to give my other friends (our common friends) up.
@freedomcat (90)
• China
22 Nov 11
For me,I will try to forgive her.I used to come across this situation which I was angry with my friend and stopped to talk to her.But after she apologize to me ,I try myself to fogive her and our friend become stronger.If I did not forgive her at that moment,our relationship would worse and I would miss a bestfriend.I don't think "dont trust anybody "is right.To have a bestfriend is harder than anything.If anyone dont trust anybody,he wont live happier and his life must lack something.
@joystick (1675)
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8 Oct 11
I do find it hard to trust people, as in the past there was a friend that i had known for many years and they stabbed me in the back really badly.Now what i do is not tell people to much that is going on in my life, this way nobody can stir things up, discuss me to people and can not cause any upset.
@zhawee (873)
• Philippines
8 Oct 11
its really had to find a true friend and trusting people.. specially in nowadays may are so very practical.. we are the same though i can`t so much trust people even i need shoulder tocry.. i know its hard to me if im not telling my problems but im so afraid if she telling them to others..