Leaving all behind for someone else
By katie0
@katie0 (5203)
Japan
August 18, 2011 1:52am CST
Could you change your whole life or move for someone else? Like giving up your life? I think this could be a terrible choice because any relationship has problems and when they come if we gave too much for a person we might be resenteful later, thinking 'I done all this and that's how he/she pay me?' or something. I think it's a bad way to start off a relationship.
To begin a healthy relationship the best is to not give up things, to make sacrifices with time, and willing to do them, not for the person but because you yourself want to give it a shot, that way we don't get to blame the other.
Aren't relationships one of the hardest puzzles to deal with in life?
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3 responses
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
22 Aug 11
Hi katie: I don't think this would be a healthy decision just because I am a different person. I should live my own life and don't live just in function of someone else. It's not ok and as you mention when you do this you take the risk to lose it all if you break up.
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@lipstick2009 (1236)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
I agree with you. If we have to give up on something, or someone in favor of the one who we love, we should do it because we want to and not as a favor to another.
It is a bad habit if we start enumerating the sacrifices we did just to make a relationship work.For the other person must have his or her contribution of sacrifices too.And if we do something for love, we don't expect anything in return.We just do it for love.
@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
18 Aug 11
You are right. I would not give up so many things for a relationship, cause for me a relationship is a compromise. If I gave this, I expected this. And when I expected does not materialized I would reconsider the overall of a relationship.
I guess all relationship is a puzzle in life, no one knows for sure what is best for hem and how to deal with it. All expecting to have more and more while not giving too many.
