I never thought..

By Toni
@toniganzon (72553)
Philippines
August 18, 2011 3:56am CST
She's always present in almost all of my discussions. I considered her as one of my coolest friends. Whenever i check my email from mylot i try to find if she started a new one. I also check if she has responded to any of mine. She's smart and has a lot of things to share despite her age. Yes i still consider her young but she's really mature enough and a tough woman. She shares her ups and downs here and even her rage, just like me. Oh she's one adorable and admirable woman. I never thought that i would be like this, checking if she's here or not. That's how significance her presence here in mylot to me. Now i wonder if she's busy or spending time relaxing with her beloved one!
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14 responses
• United States
18 Aug 11
Hi Toni! Although it is not about me, This person sounds like someone I may know and in fact several of them. lol I am glad you find someone here to be very inspirational, this is always very helpful here as inspirational members keep us going and appreciating the site.
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• United States
20 Aug 11
Too cute and when I saw that Toni checks to see if the member started a new one, I knew that it could not be me as I don't start very many.
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@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
19 Aug 11
Who knows it might be you! Well she's really a cool lady.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
18 Aug 11
Are you asking us to identify the lotter by posting this riddle.. It is difficult to make out whom you are referring to. Let me know through PM/mail, she might be on my list too, if you do not want to disclose her name here.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
18 Aug 11
chick! Let us wait for Toni's reply.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
18 Aug 11
chick! BTW are you sure it is not you whom she is referring to?
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18 Aug 11
yes! mail me too i'd like to know so i can add her and steal her friendship away from you muhahahaha!! lol!
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@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
18 Aug 11
hmm...who is that lady?? A Filipino too? She must be someone who likes to start discussions too~ When some of the members who always here started discussions and suddenly I heard nothing from them I consider they are busy with their offline life. Plus there is no other way to contact them beside mylot..(^^)
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@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
18 Aug 11
Don't worry, I learned from the past so I did ask some of them just in case they are not here and glad they did send me their email address..(^^)
@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
Oh i'm wrecking your brains out by making you think who she is! But i won't give out any clues at all. I'm just glad i've met her here in mylot and that's all you're gonna get. It's sad that some members here have left already and sad that i haven't seen one of those that i admired. It's also sad that you don't have other means to contact them except through mylot. Don't you wish you were brave enough to have asked them their email addresses?
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@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
Oh! Who's this lucky woman? She must be that good for you to long for her! You're such a nice friend.. I wonder if there's someone out there who looks for me too when I'm not around. I guess none!
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@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
Let's keep it a secret so people can keep guessing. Don't be so sure, who knows you might be the one i'm referring to. Never thought i could meet good friends here in mylot, but now for almost one year of being an active member here, i could feel how the veterans are feeling with their friends.
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@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
HAHAHA! Well, I am a newbie here but I already made great friends and most of the time, I think of myLot and its members! :) This place is so valuable to me. Because here, I've improved in lots of things and one thing is my english. I admit I am still not that good but at least I've improved! :)
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@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
That's wonderful realization. Never be absent here in mylot. I'm checking attendance and i can flunk you!
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18 Aug 11
Awww this is really nice! I don’t know who you are talking about, but that’s so lovely that you hold someone in such high esteem!! I hope you tell her this post is about her because this would really brighten anyones day, knowing they are making a difference to someone, and having an affect on someones life just through mylot discussions!! That’s the thing I found the most shocking about mylot, the attachment to people, and the desire to know about their lives and what they are doing etc, I’m like that with you! You and flash2 are two people I am always checking for new posts from you guys and I love getting comments on my discussions from you both because I know you have put a lot of thought and effort into your response, but are still being natural and yourselves, and it surprises me how much I have in common with people I have never met, especially you! We would be some team if we were friends in real life haha!
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@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
Oh yeah and we could be kicking our enemies butt and laugh our hearts out! Would sure love to tell that person someday. But as of the moment let this remain a mystery. Why? Because i'm enjoying keeping all of you guessing! Oh i'm so evil, i'm so mean!
18 Aug 11
well then dya know what? i'm just going to pretend its me and boost my own ego.. so thanks.. muwahahahaha!! lol!
@janevi (888)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
I never thought, i would responding to your post as free as i can be and as fluid as you post your thoughts;-) .... I like your posts, worthwhile topics based on life experiences... There are really several moments in our lives that we are touched by just a GENTLE PRESENCE of people around us. People whom we don't expect that they could have that effect on us. Sometimes just the sight or the thought of them can make us smile and laugh or cry. We are just amazed how they can affect us in a mysterious and peculiar ways.:-)
@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
Thank you so much for such a wonderful compliment. And i love to see that you are increasing your number of posts. It makes me more inspired to post quality topics so that more people can be active here in mylot. Inactivity of members can bring me down and sometimes depresses me. And what you're saying is true. The gentle presence of these people that we didn't expect is really great!
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@janevi (888)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
That's very encouraging! That's right I am new and i find this 'hobby' a very fulfilling one. This is somehow my way of expressing my self which I have abandoned for several months. I used to write but because of the failing dexterity of my right hand, i resorted to typing.:-( I'm glad , I meet new friends, like YOU.:-)
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@janevi (888)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
....sorry i miss out 'be' in would be responding.... and the excess 's' in peculiar way.:-D
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
19 Aug 11
She is one lucky mylotter toni Well whoever she is, she better be grateful for that friendship since it is rare to find genuine friendship online
@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
19 Aug 11
I am lucky to have found another cool woman here in mylot. It's very rare to find such a cool person. I'm lucky to have found her.
@oindy54 (3445)
• India
19 Aug 11
Hi, I feel really happy to know that you have such appreciation for someone here.This is a place where we can make many good friends and everyone is helpful out here too.I know you wish to keep the name a secret and I hope the person you are referring to reads your post and understands that it is your appreciation for her that you have expressed openly.And I hope this makes her day and brings happiness to her.
@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
22 Aug 11
I think even if she reads this she might not know i'm referring to her. All the women friends i have might think the same thing. But somehow i believe she can sense a little. I love mylot and being here is really good for me not only in developing relationship with other people but developing my inner self as well. Have a nice day.
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
Hello toni, I don't want to guess as i have other things in mind to respond on or make discussions with. but there are a lot of plenty of smart and gentle mylotters that i have come to know for the last four years of being in mylot. it's normal when we admire a fellow lotter and share to others how good they are. we all share our ups and downs. It doesn't matter if she is busy as long as she comes back, that's all that matters. Have a nice day
@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
19 Aug 11
I don't want anybody guessing, that's why i didn't ask who you think it would be. But it seems that people are trying to know who she is out of curiosity. So it's ok if you don't. I just want to share that finally i'm experiencing what others are too.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
18 Aug 11
Sounds like you are already in love with her or something. Anyway, if you are so curious about her whereabouts, why not send her another message, and ask her phone number, or email address, better yet, ask her IM. Maybe you two can connect with each other. Good luck!
@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
19 Aug 11
Nah i'm far from being in love with her! I couldn't be in love with another woman!
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
18 Aug 11
Well, I must say you are lucky to have such a friend !!
@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
19 Aug 11
Yes and i'm hoping that she feels as lucky as i feel too.
@Jelminrie (358)
• Philippines
19 Aug 11
Hi Toni, I wonder who is she, how you define her is very heart warming, Any one here would like to know who she is but as you have said, keeping it secret gives more mystery to the topic, not just give's mystery to your topic but also a smile for everyone here in myLot, knowing everyone here can have a good relationship through sharing different ideas. :)
@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
22 Aug 11
OH so true and not giving her name away would really make every woman here in mylot happy that she might be the person i'm referring to. EAch and every woman friend i have in mylot has their own good contribution.
@koperty3 (1876)
18 Aug 11
That's great that someone from myLot means so much to you. It seams that you found truth friend and person to admire. That is so rare. I wish you nice day!
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@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
Yes it's rare and i never thought that i could ever experience this. I've only read discussions of other mylotters and i couldn't relate to those actually. Until i found that person and now i can really relate to other mylotters who have found great friends here. Hope you'll find yours soon too.
@pbbbsra (1214)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
Awww.. that's so sweet of you. That girl is very lucky. You are lucky too to have found one friend from mylot. She is luckier you found her though. I know if she find out that it's her you were talking about, she will really feel happy. I hope your friendship will go a long way.
@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
19 Aug 11
I too wish the same that such friendship is not only within mylot. Thanks.