What is the best time of marraige
By kirishpatel
@kirishpatel (40)
India
4 responses
@Olleenz (3398)
• Indonesia
18 Aug 11
There's no right answer for that. Parameter for marriage not just based age but also based on persons readiness to take responsibility and share.
For example someone might have financial readiness but emotionally he/she not ready (share their life with partner). Marriage become disaster for them and that kind of marriage won't last long (even they love each other).
@livecenter (1136)
• Malaysia
26 Aug 11
@olleenz: I would agree with you there. Marriage is not a thing that you do every now and then - marriage is usually once-in-a-lifetime thing. Doing one of the most important things in your life requires sacrifice and readiness to take up to the risk and further circumstances. If you are ready financially but not in responsibility or the other way around it will not work. Perhaps we would say that living by two of us should not pose any problem in terms of responsibility, but after getting a baby? That is when the disaster struck.
Just a reminder to me and others who wants to marry early and don't even up to the responsibility.
@livecenter (1136)
• Malaysia
18 Aug 11
@kirishpatel: Frankly said, I don't think there are any 'right' answer for that - it simply depends on yourself. Before your friend proceed with his family's plan of marrying someone, prompt him to ask himself whether he is ready financially. Financially ready is important for a man to marry a woman because after marriage it is the man who will have the greatest responsibility towards his newly-build family. Also, ask him whether he is ready physically - is he ready to become a father and go through all those circumstances in raising a baby?
At the end of the day, all you need to ask is does he love that women he is going to marry. Marriage without love is hard, although still possible nowadays. 
