love after marriage

Hi Abadulhaq, Welcome to Mylot!! I vote that you should follow your heart and go where it leaads you. You only have one shot at life and you should not live it for other people's happiness. You need to stop worrying about what others will think and start worrying about how YOU feel. It's not fair to you or to your wife to stay in a loveless marriage. You both deserve love and happiness. This is just why I don't agree with arranged marriages. I know that sometimes they work out and the couple ends up falling in love but what about all the times that it doesn't work out? Love is such an important part of a relationship and a marriage that I just can't imagine a parent choosing a partner for their child. I want my children to be happy and I would never ever want to take part in the reason why they might not be. I just could not live with that. I think you should be honest with your wife. Honesty is also an important aspect of marriage. Then you should ignore the opinions of others and go be with the woman you love.

hi:) I think that's the problem with arrange marriage,the parents usually made the selection on whom you need to marry, and even you haven't met yet you're spouse you should marry them, and doesn't matter if you love them or not, so tendency if they love another there the problem arise. Very complicated, you're in a heart VS mind situation,and I can't find the nice words to say to you so I somehow couldn't help you with this. I'm clueless actually, sorry.

First of all you should never have married the girl as you are in love with someone else.Were you afraid of telling your parents about the one whom you loved? You have done injustice not only to the girl you loved but are also doing the same to your wife.I believe that in your religion,divorce is possible if the marriage is irreconceivable or if there are serious differences.As you have said that you can`t take a second wife because you can`t afford it.Again your wife should be ready to accept another woman.She will not, if she comes to know that you want to marry just because you love another woman.You will have to accept your fate and try to make the best of it and try to forget the girl you love.Gradually you will get over it.Be kind to your wife and learn to love her.I am sure you will have a good life with her. Be patient.All the best.

Well, your marriage is an arranged one so I think your wife can understand. I understand that is a difficult situation but I think you must follow your heart. Follow your love story and forget what others think about you. Arranged marriages give only two possibilities: to renounce to your love feelings to save your combined marriage or to follow your heart. I choose the second possibility.

Hey,guy,I think you are irresponsible. Now that you have marriged,you'd better forget your love!!! Your wife is innocent,and your love,you can't promise her,why don't you leave her?!!!You don't love her,you only love yourself!

Better convince ur heart before ur going to convince ur wife. Just be practical ur marriage to woman. Do u accept if ur wife loves a men after getting married with u. Simply we have some limitations after we are getting married. Bachelor men and married men are not same. Married men had some responsiblity in society. If u choose ur love before ur marriage its ok now what u going to give to ur wife. No women wil accept if their husband loves another women they are more possessive in this matter. Its just my advice dont mistake me

dont give up on your marriage, forget the other woman, watch the hindi movie silsila with amitabh bachchan, rekha and jaya.