“Acceptance will lead us to change” - how do u accept criticism !

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Constructive criticism You feel bad when someone criticized you, especially when criticism comes from a person who never knows the real you, right? You feel that, that person had stepped on your ego, when it’s not what the person meant to convey. There are two kinds of criticism that you failed to understand and felt bad when someone corrected you on the spot. You failed to look on the brighter side, because, the words impacted you with ill feeling towards the critic/s. Constructive criticism doesn’t always come from your family, loved ones or friends. Sometimes constructive criticism comes from a stranger has deeper meaning than criticism from someone whom you knew personally. You maybe wonder why and how was that? It is given, and a common knowledge that your family, loved ones and friends are always there to give you support , boost your confidence because they want you to bring out the best in you, or make you changed into a better person or excel in your field. But, a criticism from a stranger has the real essence of the word constructive criticism. You never knew the person yet he knows you can change, and you can improve because this stranger sees the inner in you which your family and friends overlooked, due to closeness and togetherness that they are already used to what you are, and who you are. It is an instinct to defend your self after receiving a criticism. To cover up your mistake, you passed the blame to other person. Why? Because, you are not ready, to accept any correction from someone you never knew personally. Remember that, constructive criticism is not the same with revile. Criticism is to make change, to made you analyzed and realized your mistake/s and not to let you down, not to worsen the situation either. Set aside your pride, too much pride will never lead you to change, instead, accept criticism as a challenge, and the solution is very simple. “Acceptance will lead you to change” Constructive criticism is not the same as revile. Critic/s wants you to change and not to bring you down. Dear mylotters, how do you accept criticism- ? Share your views and have a good day everyone noted: -(I claim that this article is originally mine and not copy pasted) jaiho® 8/19/2011 4:27pm PT (Friday)