do you feel a lot after scolding someone?
By RUBESH
@Manasha (2819)
Pondicherry, India
August 21, 2011 11:25am CST
yes, i feel most on it. I am not the person who scolds someone for silly issues and i want to treat all on par and never want to scold anyone on their face. Had it been done, then i would start feeling for many days. But i have a bad character of not saying sorry to anyone in my life. This is called egoism. I never think about the future consequences. However the bad incident would have its effect for longer time till i forget.
2 responses
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
22 Aug 11
There are times where I might feel slightly bad when I am a bit more harsh. Then again there are just many people who are going to press the right buttons. In the right combinations there are just a lot of times where I tend to rather lash out and get a bit short with another person. Thus I am going to really be able to feel as if I had scolded them perhaps a bit too much after the fact. Yet, there are many reasons why I get pushed to that particular point.
Yet in the end, what done is done. You just got to really learn from what just happened and take steps to learn from whatever did in fact happen. There are times that I might have been too sharp but there are other times where it was not completely unjustified. The fact of the matter is that we're always going to scold people who get on our nerves but there are just many times where it is not fair to go to the extremes that we do.
@akhileshebay (416)
• India
21 Aug 11
yes sometimes when i scold my younger brother or sisters
i really feel bad when my anger cools down