wonderful relationship

Indonesia
August 22, 2011 6:49am CST
Life can be beautiful, even if the happiest and the most beautiful relationship broke unfortunately? I had a wonderful relationship, I was happier than ever. Have given up everything for him, I moved to another town and every single second was lucky until separation. He has separated himself (after 6 years), without giving reasons. Inside me is a world collapsed and I do not think I can ever trust again so can be so happy and life is my life so left out, like in the time HIM. I stand in front of a shambles to be honest and have not the strength to start over again, because I'm sure I've lost quality of life
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10 responses
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
22 Aug 11
hello, Move on. You have family and friends which you can lean on. I know how you feel but that doesn't mean you will not trust anyone now. I know it is difficult in your side because he just broke up without any reasons. You know this guy really dont know how to love a women like you because I know you are much more loving him than he does. Maybe this will make you learned from your mistakes and dont worry because god always has a plan. Destiny will answer everything if you are meant of not.
• Philippines
22 Aug 11
Hello! Tiina is right. Move on. Do other stuffs and keep yourself busy. That will take your thoughts away from him. Enjoy the company of others. Good luck and hope you find new love soon. Take care!!
• Indonesia
26 Aug 11
type of lures you into a different city, use up to the task of self and shoots you at the first opportunity without a whimper in the wind and goes off And you play the grieving widow. Hard to believe the rubbish you so mean only one! I hope it is a trick question.
@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
25 Aug 11
That's tough, but life goes on. That you're going to suffer a long time, but you must look ahead. Eventually it will get better. What you must not now, my head is stuck in the sand. Not drowning in self pity. Get out, mingle with people. Not rot in the apartment alone. Girlfriend? Shopping? Walking, anything can distract you. I know these words are said always easy, and you think there is no tomorrow, but I know from experience that it is better. Believe in yourself and you do not give up. Not one of those. Cheer up
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
24 Aug 11
quality of life you have found yourself or not always - it's up to YOU ??to make the best of it NOW, but you can also go feeling sorry for yourself what I recommend you do not - do you prefer to be frog or eagle? ask yourself! and behind you wonder WHY he has clauses separated because everything has a reason even if it's painful.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
23 Aug 11
He separated from you without giving reasons? So, it left you hanging as to whether it may be just something you have done wrong or maybe he didn't loved you for real at all. I think, you have to forget such a man. Pick up the pieces, beautify yourself , socialize and love yourself more. There's still a better man waiting for you out there. Hate him ....that will motivate you to move on with a vindication. Most of all, offer your sorrow to God and for Him to give you enlightenment and strength. Life is beautiful, your family and friends love you.
@najibdina29 (1309)
• Indonesia
25 Aug 11
Hello, a good life consists not only of a great relationship, that would be pretty sad. Life holds so beautiful pages ready for everyone, you need only open your eyes. Clearly is a very good relationship and they can also enrich your own life very much, but lucky for you you manage to you alone and no one else. First of all, you should now take very important and you treat some pats in the form of whatever, is allowed, anything goes. You'll see, even then you'll be happy. And that takes you away no one.
@diala84 (138)
• United States
22 Aug 11
I'm sorry for your loss. It is hard to move on when life throws you this obstacle but you aren't alone. There are lots of other people out there also suffering and moving on. This is a good opportunity to rekindle your friendships and family relations as well as take inventory of your life and do things that make you happy. Take a class or pick up a new hobby. You might be surprised to find others with a similar story and another perspective. Don't let this incident kill all that you have become. It will take time but you will find enjoyment in life again if you seek it out. Good luck and best wishes.
@pbbbsra (1214)
• Philippines
23 Aug 11
I am sorry for the bad experience. I can't tell you not to be sad, because I know how difficult it is to lose someone you love, and to be left behind for a reason you did not know. What I can tell is that things go slowly. If it is still fresh, you have to deal with the sadness for a while. You can't just shut down the pain you are feeling. You loved that person with all your heart and it is normal to feel pain. But after crying, you have to slowly accept that he is not there anymore. Slowly you have to accept that you don't deserve the pain and you have to move on. You have to be strong and you have to realize that you did not lost. It is better you lost a relationship now, than go further on with the lies. It is normal to be sad for a while, but for a person who lied and hurt you for no reason, you should not let him let you lose your life. Life does not end there. He is not worth it. You deserve someone better... Then you have to move on. Realize the good things that you have in your life. You can't just throw away the good things for the loss of one person who left you for no reason... Then have hope, and keep praying for the right person to come in the right time. It is normal to feel bad now... but you have to help yourself in the process off moving on with your life. Move on with a better outlook, a stronger you... I hope everything will be okay soon. Never feel alone for the relationship you lost. You have your family and true friends, and they won't want to see you sad either. God is good and He have better plan for you, surely He wants someone else for you. Until that day, heal the wounds and stand up again, and be strong.
@bond027 (107)
• India
22 Aug 11
Its really sad to listen to your story..But life doesn't ends here..And i am sure he is a loser..And there lots of things in life which are more valuable and meaningful.. I wish you all the best in life and never look back..!!
22 Aug 11
I know it's a bit of a cliche, but time heals. Don't even think about starting over at the moment, wallow in self pity, eat chocolate and ice cream, do anything that might make you feel even temporarily the tiniest bit better. Talk to anybody and everybody as much as you can, share your feelings so they are halved. Sorry for all the cliches, but I suppose they exist because they are true. It's way too soon to be thinking about anything but what has happened. Give yourself a break and don't try to do anything else just yet.