remembered my ex-lover
By indahfth
@indahfth (11161)
Indonesia
August 22, 2011 8:58am CST
Today, I suddenly remembered my ex-lover who had died. I cried as though, my ex-boyfriend just died. My chest felt tight, and I could not stop crying. I am reminded of the times we were together. I became imagine, if my lover was still alive, and with me now, I'm definitely very happy.
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13 responses
@parjono (39)
• Indonesia
10 Oct 11
You seem, really love your ex-lover. You see, once experiencing the fun things with your ex-lover. And you still seem to remember, your ex-lover, even if you are married. Perhaps, because you're having problems with your husband, and make you, feel unhappy. You be given, along with happy memories of your ex- lover.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
23 Aug 11
I think when you are in a not so happy situation, your tendency is to remember that someone who once made you so happy. I can understand the feeling.
But the past is past, move on, try to understand your husband and love him. Don't ever stop praying, so one day God will make you happy once again.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
23 Aug 11
It sounds as though you were very happy with your ex and now that you are married to someone else things are not as good for you so your mind is going back to a time when you were happy and by doing that you are also reliving the grief of losing him all over again. What you feel is normal under those circumstances. I am sorry that you lost someone you cared of and that you are so unhappy with your life now. The sad reality is that looking back is pointless. You must look at your present life and move forward. The choices you have are to endure, make changes in order to make your marriage work or get out of the situation. None of those are easy but they are all you have. I wish you love and happiness…
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
22 Aug 11
My friend the first love one cannot forget and in your case it is very sad to read the incidence that has happen in your life I will pray to god that some one may comes in your life to feel the gap that has been develop in your life
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
hi,
even that person is now the Ex of our love life,we still have past with it,even bad or good still its a memories in our heart that will always remain,if that would happen to me maybe i could also feel it,to reminisce the past we had,and for sure i will cry too.
@imkrabii (38)
• Philippines
23 Aug 11
It's nice to somehow remember the happy moments that we spent with our past relationships but more than that we should focus more on facing the present time with the people whom we are now. I hope you wouldn't make it feel so unfair to them and instead show them the love that they deserve.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
22 Aug 11
Why not just accept that he is with you now. In your mind give him hugs and kisses and thank him for coming to visit. If you had not needed him at this time
the memory would not have come to you. Just accept and be thankful. Blessing
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Aug 11
Sorry to hear that you lost your lover.
I am sure it hurts you so much that is why you still cried remembering him.
I hope you feel fine now after crying your heart out.
have a good day
jaiho®
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
22 Aug 11
Hi indahfth!
Yes remember a dear one we once loved who has passed can be very sad. Life is odd sometimes where things happen that we cannot explain. Maybe it would not have been so happy and maybe it would have. I am glad on the other hand that the memories are fond and wonderful ones, even though they do make you a bit sad. But I am sure that alongside the sad you do feel joy that this person was a part of your life.
@katrinapaz (2436)
• Philippines
23 Aug 11
i think that your ex boyfriend would want you to be happy even though he is far away and can never be with you anymore. i am sorry for your loss. i can only imagine the pain and sorrow that you are going through. i wish you well as you move on with your life.
@silver_sharkbait (158)
• Philippines
22 Aug 11
Its sad when we remember the person who are very close to us. But its time for you to move on. Move on doesn't mean we should forget about them. We just have to continue living and be happy.