Wow.....She's Gone
By ckfree
@ckfree (105)
Indonesia
4 responses
@chicksdigscars (5483)
•
23 Aug 11
i don't understand? did you aks her to marry you and she said no?
@ckfree (105)
• Indonesia
24 Aug 11
I tried to review it as simple as possible. At the time when I asked her to marry, she was silent. I said to her, do you take time to answer? She just nodded. Okay no problem. But then slowly, she was difficult to contact, can not be met, many reasons that make no sense. In other words, she has started lying. I am left out, you know, don't want to impose a state
@chicksdigscars (5483)
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24 Aug 11
i think you should demand she speak to you. the least she can do is tell you the truth!
@ckfree (105)
• Indonesia
24 Aug 11
For now let it go, I'm tired of seeing her attitude changes. Inhale deeply :)
Later if she really needed me, she would call again and find me. And that truth will surely she expressed. But I didn't expect her to return
Currently my friend is trying to find out her whereabouts. She tried to be 'a spy' to find the right information.
Whatever :)
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
22 Aug 11
Hi Ckfree,
Welcome to Mylot! I'm sorry this happened to you. How long had the two of you been seeing each other? Is it possible that you took her off-guard when you asked her to marry you and that she just needed some time to think it over? Do you have any idea as to WHY she left? I can't imagine that she would leave you simply because you asked her to marry you. It just seems as if there must be a reason other than that.
@ckfree (105)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 11
Hai...
Thank you so much come to feel it, maybe she's not my soul mate. I believe no matter how old we are related if not destined though God would have kept away. During this time I asked God to give a wife the best. And that is the answer, she is not the best for me. Whatever the reasons meant she could not accept me as I am. Don't worry, there are still many single women in the world :)
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
23 Aug 11
Hi Ckfree,
Yes, if she left you for no good reason then it is true...she just isn't the right one. Be patient. The right one will come along and probably when you are least expecting it. Like you said, there are plenty of single women out there and she will be worth waiting for. I wish you the best!
@ckfree (105)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 11
I am very pleased and feel fortunate to meet and have a friend like you. Thanks for the support, it made ??me encouraged to accept reality. People like you really appreciate the value of truth and honesty. I've seen your profile. You must already have a harmonious family, a good husband and cute kids. And you become a great mom, right ..
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
22 Aug 11
I am sorry to hear she is no longer there for you. Perhaps she is afraid of commitment. Some people like the dating and not quite ready for commitment. As sad as it sounds maybe it just was not meant to be. Perhaps she will message you one day and give you the reason why she is no longer there.
Welcome to myLot and I hope you enjoy your stay.
