Choose

Why should I choose one, if I can get both? First of all, I would like to create a best situation, so I wouldn't have to choose between family or fiancee. I can explore what my parents like, before finding and getting my fiancee. I can talk with them, can discuss with them, and can have a little good debate with them. Moreover, I am the pilot of my own life! But if a situation come to the pinch, I would never ever deny my family - especially my parents. That is funny - they were used to raise me well, give their best to make me a fully "person" - then why should I deny them? I am the pilot of my own life! When I am seeing my parents doing a wrong things and having a wrong perception about me or my fiancee, I would change it! If I failed to do so, half of them is my fault - why can't I have a better communication with my parents from the very first time? Again, I wouldn't deny my parents

Dear Friend I didn't face situation in my life. As we know we can't live as single. We need to have support from our family in case of difficulty. If the family members are restricting your life and I think have you have to face that restriction. You have to challenge them. If you win they will never force you. In case you face such situation whether we want to choose fiance and family. My advice is that we need both. Dont get jump into ones postion which will adversll effect only your life. So you must be cunning take a step that dont harm both of them.