Oh My It disappeared or what?

Wait, when did you start the discussion? I have not received a notification you started one prior to this one. Are you sure that when you hit submit that it actually went through? If it is an old discussion, then okay maybe deleted, but Mrs. Hatley I have not received a recent notification of a new discussion. So I don't think yours went through. When did you start this , as I went to my email and checked and nothing there that you started one?? Or is my memory going bad and I already replied, but it would have been in my trash and not there.

Hatley Madam: I did not read what was the discussion. You should not bother at this age for such small things. Considering your age and experience these things are not to be taken seriously. Discussions of most of us would have been deleted at one time or the other. I saw your name and I though the discussion may be on the earthquake in washington--

LOL, sorry to laugh, but mylot isn't perfect either........I don't get a lot of discussons sent to me. I goof too, but usually the discussion is sent out anyway, Don't feel like the Lone Ranger here ! We all have this happen and we feel just numb as you do. Take heart my dear Hatly, it's not all you .. I love ya tho.. hugs,quita

"Make sure you search for existing topics before starting new discussions. "Mylot did speak clearly.However,I have never done it as they said to be honest.I think It is too much bother doing it.But there again,there are so many moylotters here every day,who can makes sure there is no like discussion?

It happens to everyone now and then, I think. Probably someone reported it as a similar discussion. I can understand how you feel bad. I guess I would feel bad too. But you have to know with so many people here that some of us are going to think alike. Even if you had the same thought the words would not likely be the same. O don't see any reason for your discussion to be deleted. Just look at all the discussions. There are probably 50 similar discussions. I know I have seen several discussions that are similar on any given day and they aren't deleted.

Woooo 44538 means I think you are the most senior person in mylot. But I am new here I have seen your profile you are 85 years old madam you are really inspiration for us. Now in new generation no one can do work after 50 or 60 years. I am a new user here so I not seen your discussion which was deleted but thanks to share it because I will take care when start the discussion.

Hi Hatley, myLot site is no longer new to me and I do would goof I did start a topic without searching thoroughly and found same topics were already available This is mainly due to, I'm not doing my work conscientious So take it easy and don't feel uneasy and blame on whatever which can't be remedied or restored again. However don't worry much about it. May be same topic but different description of content still considered to be safe I suppose. Anyway I would take this as a good lesson and not to commit the same mistake again. Happy posting!

I don't see any other notifications from you, maybe the internet just swallowed it up and never posted it at all... I've missed seeing ya Hatley

Hi Hatley, I haven't seen any of your discussions that I would have thought broke the rules but it happens sometimes. I do know how you feel. I had a comment removed not to long ago that said it was meant to inflame. I felt so bad and my intent was not at all to inflame. I don't know how it was taken or why it was taken that way but it sure wasn't how I meant it to be taken. So I do understand your feeling. Chin up, Hatley. We're human. We all make mistakes and sometimes it's just a misunderstanding.

Did you make this discussion today? and even if you made it earlier, I usually never miss one of your posts and I don't have any notification on it..

I would reword it and try again. We have to remember we are not just asking questions to be answered but are starting DISCUSSIONS. I know how to search for other discussions on here so I am just flying blind when I post something. If you are really questioning why it was deleted why don't you write to the administration and ask? I sure would!

Hi Hatley, you are4 never to be blamed, its not your fault, someone made a mistake and its gone, I know that you always know the rules but I know tha some people don't and sometimes they will take it away knowing that ypou wrote it and then make it their own, only they will know, so, please don't blame yourself, just be flattered, big warm hugs to you always. Tamara xxxx

Hi Hatley, Mistakes do happen, whether they are made by you or through an internet connection fault. If it was your fault (which I doubt it), do a search for the topic again to see whether it was a duplicate. If it's a connection problem, just put out your question again, we'll rush in to answer you! Don't be sad and don't feel down, your friends are all around.

Hello Mrs Hatley, I just logged in to MYLOT and i can see your 2 discussions started today and are coming on the first page as 'Oh My It disappeared or what?' & 'ok everyone repeat after me, mylot has no rates!! my lot has no rates!!!'.Was it another one??.But yes if it was third and deleted by ADMIN the notification will be sent for it and you will definitely come to know that if it was deleted or not.I know it hurts when our response /discussion get deleted by admin.

I would not worry to much about it. I mean you have been here for four years and thats your first post that had been deleted. Did you ask administration? I think that I had one taken off and that was because I put it in the wrong subject. I didnt ask I actually just havent started any discussions! lol. Dont feel bad about it. It happens to us all at some point. Smile you have done well in your years of dedication to my-lot!

Stupid and useless? Hatley, a lot of people have had their discussions, even mylotters who have been here a while. Don't worry about it. The last thing you are is stupid and useless. I don't know which of your discussions were deleted. I'm way behind on my e-mails after being offline for a while.

hi hatley. sometimes i miss to search for topics, similar discussions before post mine. but so far, i have not received any notifications from mylot regarding my discussions that were removed. i think i missed that discussion of yours, or i just didn't received the notification like you.

Aww...don't be so hard on yourself. It's hard sometimes not to post something alike or similar. This site has been here a while now and there are a lot of bright people here. Great minds think alike I have always heard. I have searched discussions before and didn't find a thing and then when I posted it...over to the side where the related discussions were...boom...there one was. It hasn't happened to me often but it is bound to happen a couple of times. Mylot makes mistakes sometimes too...I have seen discussions within guidelines and not duplicated at all that have been deleted. One of my good friends on here couldn't start one for a while without it getting deleted. I don't know what was up with that. Anyway..no one is perfect and I wish you weren't feeling so bad about it. Take care and talk to you later.

Hi Hatley, when i saw your this discussion, i checked my email box and only saw 2 topics being started by you. It is this topic and another is the "Mylot has no rates". So, i am not sure which topic that being deleted by Mylot. Recently, i had a few discussions being deleted by Mylot for violating the rules. I know how it feels when seeing our discussions gone missing. Just hope you don't feel sad and worry about it. I am sure you will get notification from Mylot, if it is really being deleted. Hope to see you get on actively like usual in here...

Dear madam I think you face this situation first time deletion of topic because I have seen your topic is good and informative. I not know which topic is deleted because I not get any notification about your topic I was on leave for 10 days and I am not active here since 10 days. So I start a new discussion yesterday first time. I was missing you and all mylotter when I was not active here.