by love hurts
@nezavisima (7408)
Bulgaria
6 responses
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
28 Aug 11
Good!
Yes, sad that you feel the pain; but GOOD that you know what it is!
Now thinking of 'that pain' (not 'the fact (that you're alone) which causes the pain,' which we'll get back-to shortly)---breathe-in asking yourself, "Can I let this go?"; and breathe-out saying "yes" or "no" ... either way, honestly.
If you say 'no,' that's fine; either try the question again, or ...
If you say 'yes,' you're ready for what you need to do (whether you're ready or not): the solution to 'loneliness' is NOT 'MORE loneliness'! It starts when you just go out to have fun with others!
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
28 Aug 11
not so very true.
pain can stop only when we think or when you just have fun and allow the pain to overwhelm us and make us sit in a confined space.
nice day!
@kat744 (74)
• Kenya
24 Aug 11
I have gone though such pain before and almost evryone goes through a breakup in their life. The pain is usually so deep especially the first month such that some people end up deppressed. I thought I would never recover from the pain, but time proved me wrong.
Time heals everything and am happy again and with someone else. In relationships there are no guarantee because you are not the only one making decisions. Just live one day at a time and leave tomorrow to itsself.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
24 Aug 11
time to heal.
pain is great but then again everything is forgotten when snamerim new love.
I hope no one suffers from such love.
Thanks for the reply and nice day!
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
24 Aug 11
love is a pain.
We always hurt by love but we must be able to stay level and do not show that hurt us.
Thanks for the reply and nice day!
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
25 Aug 11
Absolutely it can be painful to experience the loss of love. Do know that with time all gets better, in the mean time try and keep very busy so that you are not consuming each second of life thinking of the pain.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
25 Aug 11
Friend there is pain where is love after love pain or after pain love is possible. So I want to suggest to all new generation person dont fall in love direct do the marriage and set your own life with only one girl that is your wife.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
25 Aug 11
yes this is a very good idea.
I think many of us love hurts, so we must be careful in who you fall in love.
Thank you very much for the reply and nice day!
@koperty3 (1876)
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24 Aug 11
With every next day you will feel better. My previous relationship was disaster. Finally when I was free of this man I felt hurt and I wanted forget everything. So I became workaholic. Maybe not good idea but I was busy all the time and I no time to think what happened to me. I led my life like this about 2 years and I met my partner. Love of my life. We are together 5 years and we are happy. You will feel better soon. You will see. I wish you all the best!
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
24 Aug 11
Many thanks for your sympathy.
I think you are very right.
not so much to think about this love.
to pain will not go away for a day.
It is important to pass the time and things do start to leak in the normal way.
Thanks for the reply and nice day!