shall i call him ?
By suziejia
@suziejia (17)
China
August 25, 2011 4:37am CST
It is all about the looking into your eyes,the thing happens as this:
our company has machines imported from FELDER ,Austria ,and he,FLORIANMR ,as technician flyed to China to help install the machines.
our manager asks me to take some tools downstairs to the workshop,then i saw FLORIANMR for the first time: he is dealing with the package opening ,side to me ,sweaty ,very indulged in working thing , i was attracted a little by this scene,gazing at him ,good body shape,natural skin-color...."is he handsome?he is 24,the same age as you.."our manager introduced us ,and i just lost my thought at that moment ,not knowing what to say....
the following night ,our manager treated us a dinner, we arrived ealier and waited for him in the restaurant ,then he arrived afer getting changed ,he smiled to everyone shily and seated..i could looked into his eyes directly from my seat and i looked him picking up the chopsticks and i could not help smiling at him ,cus you can imagine this maybe his first time using chopsticks .
he behaved politely during the whole ,cheers ,smiling ,yes ,he said he did not eat frogs ,and when frogs served ,our staff played a joke on him"try some ,this is good "then he had a litle piece..then he asked me "what i ate is really frogs"
"no .just chicken ,you can relieved."then he really felt relaxed ..
the picture time ,i felt i just wanna have one with him ,so i walked to him,then our manager said to him "say love to her and kiss her"shocked and embarrassed ,i did not know how to move forward ,just stopped ,and he maybe had felt my embarrassment ,and just sit on the chair beside me ,i stood ,and pictured..
then we started talking and our guys kept on toasting him beer ,he said to me"please tell these guy ,i am Germany ,for me ,this beer feel likes water .."then i told him the more toast ,the more respect, and he had to accept all the kindness,saying"oh ,they are nice" while taking and drinking ,he said after beer,he could only understand me half ,so i have sit closer to him and repeat . he showed me the pictures in his i-phone and told me his travelings around the world ,i felt really good ,at one moment ,when we were talking ,we happened to look into each othe's eyes ,he has a light bule eyes ,really gentle and charming ,at the moment, i felt something different..
and he asked me to drive him back to his hotel ,and our manager also encouraged me to ,so i with the driver together drove him back .on the way , there was just silence ,time moved really fast,then we arrived .i walked him to his room 818 ,he led me to the elevaor ,just wrongly after we entered ,i smiled loudly "are you drunk ?you led me wrong " when taking elevator ,he put his hands on my shoulder, i even did not dare to look at him as this is first time i had man's hands on my body,then fastly we arrived 8 floor .he gave me his door card ,and i opened the door ,then said see you ,then turned around left ,then came his call when i was steps away ,i back,something wrong with room electricity maybe ,and during my return ,he fixed it ok maybe ,and we said bye again and left really.
the next day ,he finished his installment and back to Austria, without any contact information.i know i started to miss him or something and i could not help calling him. only had his company's published TEL,and the guy told me there were several FLORIANMRS ,which i was looking for.actually i even have not his full name ,only he was 24 maybe and from Munich ,and the gut told me i was looking for FlORIANMS OTT,and he will back from vacation next monday ..
shall i call next monday,i feel just a bit lost.
2 responses
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
25 Aug 11
it was just like watching a very feel-good romantic movie. anyways i'm happy for you as you're experiencing the wonders of love.
though i think you're somewhat hesitating on making that call, probably due to the some moral issues or conservativeness or whatever, but i think there is nothing wrong if you would initiate such a move on calling him, although it would be obviously sending 'signals' that you really like him which by the way i think you really are, lol! anyways, it's a good start to initiate to know more about him and hopefully cupid's arrow would hit the mark! good luck! don't hold on, go and explore what you feel!
@suziejia (17)
• China
25 Aug 11
i thank you for the hint and for adding me in.
actually i do not even know why i should make the call ,tell him i am little missing him? so what?he is in Austria,i am China ,and you know it is impossible to be rational every moments.
so maybe just a call telling him i am missing him and that is all .
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
25 Aug 11
make some funny excuses, i.e. questioning him stuff about the installation made in your office, then start from there and just see where it goes. friendship i think is the best foundation for every lasting relationship, and things are not yet so complicated. if you cannot talk to him, then ask for his e-mail, search social networks about him, chat, there are lots and lots of way. if you feel that you want him to be a part of your life, then initiate your interest, okidoki?
@suziejia (17)
• China
26 Aug 11
hah ,i see it is workable to start with a relationship this way..
however, i am still wondering if it is Ok for a girl to move the first step initiating a relationship ,as you know it is in China ,alrough i have been through college education encouraging us to be initiative and assertive,it is just tradition culture a little bit draging me .
also what would you men think about this ? it is said men seldom say No to such things ,and how can i judge if he feels the same as me or just make it..
it seems i have beening take you as expert on emotion
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
26 Aug 11
If you feel you like him to call why not...? there is nothing wrong in it as long as you like him and you are free to any commitment the same as he. That is the feeling that you really disturbed even at the middle of the night and hard to you to take sleep and eat well. Maybe that is love. And there is nothing wrong of feelin inlove. Try to do what you think feels you easy and happy but make sure that he has the same feelings as you feel toward him. Anyway that will be developed. Along the way of friendship you will know the exact feelings you feel right now.. TRy to call this is what i gonna advise you. Be happy...