Do you consider other's suggestions in taking important decision in your life?
By Shineveramya
@Shineveramya (530)
India
August 25, 2011 11:50am CST
Surrounding people, well wishers, friends, relatives everybody used to give advice, suggestions when we're facing some problem. It may be useful or sometimes worthless. Will you consider them or you only take decision on your own in your life? How you manage things?
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@Shineveramya (530)
• India
25 Aug 11
Good. You proved as a typical tamil girl. Yes Kala. Im back. Great. You remembered me. Proud of you....:)
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@Shineveramya (530)
• India
25 Aug 11
But sometimes people will confuse by telling more. We can take decision only if we think on own.
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
25 Aug 11
People have different experiences, of course. So, it is helpful to listen to suggestions and advices of friends and relatives who have the experience more than oneself on that particular matter. But, of course, the decision is entirely upto yourself.
@reploid (1371)
• France
25 Aug 11
I usually take decisions on my own. I am not a good listener. I've gone through a lot of trials and errors and I've learn from that. I also believe that it is always you that takes the final decisions, even if the decision is to listen to the other, it was your decision to listen in the first place.
@Shineveramya (530)
• India
25 Aug 11
Yes. If we taken decision with others idea and it got failed means our relationship will fail too. It grow only if their idea succeeded. So to maintain good relationship we should take decision on our own.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
25 Aug 11
Hi,
Though most of my decisions are end up with a mix of different peoples suggestions and discussions if it is really a decisive or remarkable one. We are not always matured enough to handle certain issues that may arise in our life and an expert opinion or a second suggestion is always recommended. Some time we may not adequately experienced in certain issues in our life and others opinions may have its own importance.
Not so different, these days I would consult with others wherever I found necessary. It would help us to foresee things which may never thought of and may not think of. However, an ultimate decision could be of mine.
Thanks for such a nice topic.
Thank-s
@Shineveramya (530)
• India
25 Aug 11
Yes. We might have one view whereas others see same thing in different view. In that case we can analyse which will be good. But i can say in important matters, we should analyze and take decision on our own.
@hafiz008 (450)
• India
25 Aug 11
In my case I will ask for suggestion, opinon for the problem I faced to my friends, families etc. As we cant live lonely and it is a fact. Some times our friends have the ability to tackle the problem in a easy way. It also strengthen the further relationship.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
26 Aug 11
Really, still if there may be some thing important but cannot be disclose to common people because it can be confidential or private or extreme personal, but we really need to go for a second opinion, in that case we will be little puzzled. However, I think in such cases most of the people takes decision by their own and fortunately, most of the cases the decision what we conclude may be appropriate as we individually think a lot with the possibilities and consequences of the same issue.
Thank-s
@Shineveramya (530)
• India
25 Aug 11
yeah. I accept that our friends, relatives are right person to give suggestions and all. But decision should be ours.
@Shineveramya (530)
• India
25 Aug 11
Yeah! Im also having the same thought. We can hear their suggestions but its not we should follow them...
