What should I do?

I would talk to her about finding a new name becasue if it was me it would be incredibly hard to hear someone say the name of the baby I was about to have.. I'm sorry for your loss and I hope everything goes great for you, your baaby, your siter and her baby.

Don't fight with your sister at this stage in your lives. These family feuds have a tendency to continue for years. Your babies hopefully will grow to be good friends.

Hello blue and welcome to myLot. Congratulation about the forth coming baby. I wouldn't bother to fight your sister over a name. There are so many interesting beautiful name out there that one is not worth the trouble one can cause in a family. Besides it's early to get real set on a name this soon as you said your only five day pregnant. Good luck with the baby

I would say that for the healthy sake of you and your baby that perhaps choose a different one and don't tell her which it is until after her baby is named, if you fear she may take it also. What you can do is calmly explain to her if there is anyway to kindly dig in her heart and allow you to be the one with Nova as the baby's name she may reconsider. Just saying not to fight because family should not and sadly she really should not have done this but sometimes it is beyond reasoning and it can tear the family. Both cousins will need each other in the future and over a name, which again in your heart of hearts you know this is wrong of her, but it will show her you are the bigger kind hearted one.

Hi blue! Talk to your sis and tell her how you really like this name for your child. Anyway, don't stress out much. Relax and everything will be fine.

What a predicament. Not knowing why your sister chose the name too it's hard to say, but in general you have to ask yourself is it worth making a fuss over? Did she also express an interest in the same name? Congrats on your pregnancy I wish you all the best.

I would fight for it.If she has her baby first and still names her Nova,then just go ahead and name her Nova too.You said that she was 2 months pregnant.How far a long are you?

I think that you should be able to name your baby daughter Nova. You sister would be mean if she did so ahead and name her baby daughter that. I believe both of you should think of other names you like just in case. I hope that you manage to have a relaxing time in your pregnancy. I wonder which baby is likely to be born first? Good luck.

hi bluegemini10 that's not fair of your sister as You had picked that name first,I would fight for it as your sister's not playing fair.You had a reason to use that name so ask her to select something else. Why should you have to stand down? she may be your sister but you had that name picked out. let her use her head and pick something else out. that is a cute name. congrats.

firstly im sorry for the loss of your first baby! secondly you will probably change your mind many times over names, you could both have boys, or you a boy and she a girl, let it go!!! Find some other names you like and dont tell anyone thats what I did :p