Being calm will get respect frm others rather than talkative.How far this is tru
By Shineveramya
@Shineveramya (530)
India
August 25, 2011 4:10pm CST
I get advices like reduce your talks with others. Otherwise they don't value you more. They'll think you're rubbish. If you're calm, they'll think you are intelligent and give you more respect. Is this true?
Im very much talkative and have more friends. They all do pranks with me and make fun with me. Sometimes cross their limits and hurt me. That happens rare. They are helpful to me and told they feel me as a good friend.
But other girls who are very calm will get more respect. They treat me as a child. They play with me. But they call other girls with respect and always maintain little distance. Its not like they avoid them, they help other girls too but i feel they treat me as special friend. Is this my imagination?
Im bit confused...
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
26 Aug 11
It is obvious that you are a sweet girl, who likes friends and shows a lot of love to them, feeling close to them, chatting a lot etc.., I was also like this once ;now with advancing years I am better. Ramya! this does not get us too much respect.People would always take you for granted and disregard whatever you say thinking you are immature.WHen your services are required they would use you but they never would respect you. Be friendly but never go overboard. Keep your respectful distance, make a habit of talking less and you would find a difference.YOur opinions would be resepcted more.It is your imagination that you are considered a special friend by many.There can be only one or two special friends and this would be known to our heart. Others would all fall in the similar general category of "friends' and just be happy with this. Be self sufficient as far as possible.
@Shineveramya (530)
• India
26 Aug 11
You're wrong. My lover likes my chatty behaviour. But i know my limits. How far i should be closer to others.
