Until now I don't know why???????
By tess_quinain
@tess_quinain (1149)
Philippines
August 26, 2011 2:54am CST
My cousin lost his older brother. It was unexpected. Everybody was shocked and disappointed why it happened. People say that his brother is a good person and keep a lot of good promises. Now, people are asking why HE has taken him in an inappropriate time. Some of them keep on asking why and what he had done wrong.
In my case, I lost my parents at a very young age. I know how painful it is and I strongly believe that everything happens for a reason. I can't deny the fact, that I myself are asking questions from HIM why he had taken my precious parents at an early age. I have had a tough life but i am grateful enough to have relatives who help me.
Though, I said and believed in, "that everything happens for a reason". But up to now, I still don't know why.. why??
I still long for my parents and wish i could go back from the past. ![](/Content/images/emotes/cry.gif)
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5 responses
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
26 Aug 11
I am so sorry you had to lose your parents at a very young age. But I am pretty sure they are looking down on you and are blessing you in every step of your life.
Losing someone you love is really a hard thing, I know. I lost my dear grandpa this year, and that is one of the reason why I am hating this year so bad! Anyway I hope grandpa is in a better place now and is in no pain.
I wish to meet him one day, after all of this is over, after my life is over. I hope I get to meet him.
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@HeartROB (434)
• Philippines
28 Aug 11
As what you have said. Everything has its own reason, but then those reasons cannot be understand instantly. You will be able to figure it out soon, maybe you will be able to directly or indirectly know the answer of your question. Or maybe, the answer is already in front of you, you are just blinded because you keep asking why. Its not easy to find the answer of your questions(Even me, I have a hard time figuring out the reasons of my questions), go with the flow. In time you will just realize that you already found the answer why. Be happy with what you got my friend:))
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Aug 11
You were wondering why until now what is the reason why you lost your parents at an early age?
What are the changes in your life since you lost your parents?
Does their absence made you stronger and understand life at an early age as well?
I am sure at the very young age you've grown a matured person and a strong one.
That is one reason why you lost your parents that early- to make you a strong person.
And being a strong person means-independent.
And being independent- not everyone has the courage to be independent and even older people still acts immature and think stupid.
have a great weekend ahead
jaiho®
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@thetis74 (1525)
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27 Aug 11
Like you just said that everything happens for a reason and that is why. The only difference is we can't figure as to what and which reasons can best expound why sad things like these happens. And knowing that these reasons are valid, it is just fair for the one ones we love who pass away to want to see us strong while they are in a different realm.
@Airen214 (50)
• Philippines
26 Aug 11
Absolutely yes my friend! You are right. Everything happens for a reason. If your parents weren't taken away from you, how would you know the love of your aunt. how would you become a strong person? How much would you experience about life? How would you learn? How much would you care your siblings? How's everything would go in the future? Everything is done with a purpose though the reason is might be unacceptable. Life is really like that. If there comes good, bad one follows and vice versa. So better to be a good player. A player who never quits and keep on playing til the end. In the end, an everlasting memories on earth will be kept forever...
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