Who do I love the best?

My partner still got occasional contact with his ex and I don't mind. We are together 5 years and I know that I can trust him. Everybody got some past relationships and we have to focus on present time. I wish you all the best!

I felt that way a couple times in my life! I was married but still in love with my high school sweet heart. It was tough and I had to put the feelings for my high school sweetheart behind me and move on. The second time I was second guessing if I should move on from my ex husband. I felt like as much as he abused me he financially supported me & the kids. I didn't have to work so I could be home with the kids. That was also tough but I realized even if I had to sacrifice my time with my kids it was not worth going back to a man that abused me when I had a man by my side that loved me but needed my help financially to make our household work. Then I did it again with an ex boyfriend. My man found out & broke up with me & I felt so lost & empty even with the other guy still there so I knew that the one who dumped me was the one I loved more! I did everything I could until he gave me another chance & we are still together & our wedding is next year! You have to decide who makes you happy & what you really want out of life. That's the only way to do it. I wrote down a pro & con chart to see what I liked about both & what I didn't & weighed it out. I also decided to live by this quote: "Don't marry the one you can live with, marry the one you can't live without."

It's natural about your boyfriends' reaction,I think he just love you too much.And it isn't accounting for trusting or not,maybe I also can't bear my boyfriend to contact with ex frequently. You can explain to your ex boyfriend,and tell him clearly what your mind. Have a nice day!